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When hozier's "someone new" said that sex is holy and beautiful even in the context of one night stands he flipped every conservative off while still acknowledging the love associated with sex and he was so real for that
What is the most attractive physical trait in a man (not including personality, even though that's a factor, just pick one based on what he looks like)
If something else or something more specific add it in the tags
And ofc choose the parts that apply to the attractive men in your life, if someone you like doesnt have some of these you can still vote on the poll!
*me ovulating*
*my bf getting spammed with unsolicited nudes*
I wanna see more plus sized trans people and LGBTQ+ in general
'universal trans experience' and it's only applicable to perisex alloromantic allosexual middle class thin abled white americans
Just a friendly reminder that not all aromantic people are also asexual! You can be aromantic and still experience sexual attraction!
You know what really bothers me?
The assumption that, because I’m asexual, I’m depriving my partner of sex.
I’m not depriving him of anything. He came into this relationship fully aware of my orientation and preferences and made the decision to date me anyway. Why should I be required to atone for my orientation? I shouldn’t feel guilty about not wanting sex any more than he should feel guilty for wanting it.
I don’t have to feel guilty because he isn’t getting laid. He made that decision himself of his own free will and I don’t owe him sexual favor to keep him interested in me. If he suddenly decides that the lack of sex is a problem, that’s his prerogative and he can end the relationship if he so chooses.
That’s the beauty of a partnership. We both have choices in the matter and we both have boundaries to maintain. We’re both responsible for happiness here, not just the one of us without sexual urges toward the other.
I think this type of misconception definitely needs to be abolished.
Fun Fact: Shockingly enough, many, if not most, allosexual humans won't care if you don't really feel sexual/romantic attraction and want to be forever single.
But if you call it "being AroAce", some of them want to straight up murder you for some reason.
