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Hey guys!

I don’t think I’ve ever made a post like this before but unfortunately someone has forced my hand to do so. I really wanted my next post to be a new fic but it looks like it’ll have to wait until I address this.

I don’t like having issues with people especially if the issues aren’t even on my own issues— even more so in a space that I created for fun.

As some of you guys may know, I recently made a public server called Boba Pop. Anyone is free to join as long as you’re 18+ and enjoy anime men’s penis an almost grotesque amount. But that’s neither here nor there!

There was an issue that arose today between two members in my server over a theme divider. User @/sluttsumu and user @/miguelism are the parties involved.

Unfortunately, Stella felt as though Kierra stole her theme. I completely understand how frustrating that feeling is because I’ve had it done to me in the past. It especially puts salt in the wound because I used to really put hours into editing videos, banners, and gifs for my layouts. So, I can emphasize how it could feel.

I should also preface that in my server’s rules, it states to keep any drama at bay. More specifically, stating keep any issues in private conversations, limited but not limited to speaking to said person or a mod!

My server has an “open door” policy meaning if anyone feels unsafe, or like they’re being bullied/attacked, or then threatened/harassed, not hesitate to come to a mod if you aren’t sure how to approach the situation or even if you’re not much of a confrontational person and need one of us to break the ice. Communication is highly encouraged for better relationships and a more open atmosphere for the server.

It becomes an issue when there’s a lack of communication, on top of taking an issue that could certainly be handled privately, to tumblr. A platform that isn’t the safest for things like discourse and silly little online drama because of how easily accessible anonymity is, and the thousands of eyes that could potentially see said private situation between two people.

Stella did that exact thing and unfortunately, someone was uncomfortable with the situation.

The situation goes as follows:

Kierra mentioned Stella, letting her know that her theme was beautiful. Then said she hoped she didn’t mind that she used the glitter header she was currently using.

Stella said that it was fine.

Stella said that she noticed Kierra “also” took inspiration from the heart gif header she was using.

Kierra let's Stella know that she’s been using that header for years. (Since 2021.)

Stella acknowledges this and Kierra says that pink themes are very popular.

That’s not the issue, the issue is when someone takes to tumblr to sub post about the situation instead of speaking to the person you have an issue with like an adult or even speaking to someone on the mod team. That then makes said person feel uncomfortable and like they’re feeling attacked in the space, making them turn to a mod for advice on how to navigate the situation.

If you were uncomfortable at any point within the situation, you could’ve either reached out to the person you have this issue with or a mod so there wouldn’t be any communication issues. No one can read your mind on how you’re feeling unless it is said directly to someone. You acknowledged Kierra and you moved on, realistically, how is that person supposed to know how you feel? The mods and myself really encourage open communication so there aren’t any misunderstandings.

Making private situations public without the person you have an issue with aware of said issue, is not the way to go about things no matter how you look at things.

Can you imagine speaking to someone you believe is a friend then going online to see them sub posting about you in a negative light, being incredibly passive aggressive? I would really believe that anyone would be at a loss.

All this is to say, I was spoken to by my mod team who analyzed the situation (I was working) after it was brought up to them. To which, I then spoke to Stella about it to be the middleman.

I’ll attach the screenshots of our conversation so nothing is lost in translation.

I don’t appreciate and I will not accept being called out of my name for doing my job as an admin. I was very polite, respectful and tried my best to navigate the situation.

Stella, there weren’t any “bad” vibes. You were genuinely such a pleasure to speak to and interact with. You’re extremely funny and I found so many of the members in the server laughing at the jokes you would crack. And even being some of the first to read the works you would post in the promotions channel. You were welcomed and celebrated, as everyone is in Boba Pop.

This isn’t about “big blogs” and whatnot either. You want to avoid discourse but again, you take to tumblr to make this situation even bigger than it needed to be instead of communicating like an adult.

You were not ganged up on either. You were only spoken to by myself (the admin) then Kierra (the person you actually have the issue with). You said that I “blamed” you but there was no blaming. I came to you as an administrator with an ongoing issue that dealt with you and another member because my mod team notified me of the situation.

Your behaviors online do have consequences, as all of ours do. This situation could have absolutely been avoided but instead you took to playing victim on tumblr and spreading a false narrative that favors yourself.

I really do wish you the best but you don’t get to bad mouth me online, indirectly or directly, and expect me not to address the situation.

introducing: a video that traumatized me when i was little <3

...what did i just watch😃😃babe did you need to traumatize me as well?? cause you very much reached your goal <33 now i have to sleep with this in my head😆

human eightfold

are you well known in your fandom?

^^ I WROTE THIS

(Pls add my writing blog-)

I love you.

It’s an easy thing to say to others

But it’s also really, really difficult.

Sometimes those 3 words don’t express how you feel well enough.

One of my favourite ways to express my love will always be, I loved you to the point of creation.

It shows that I loved you so much and couldn’t contain it to just words.

I loved you so much that I had to make a physical reminder of that,

Something that will forever show my love for you.

Whether it’s something big or something small that I create, it all has the same meaning.

I have so much love for you that I couldn’t contain it.

I think it has a special place in my heart because I’m not good at expressing my feelings.

But I love making stuff, just as I love you.

I would make you anything you ask of me.

No matter how big or small.

I love you so much.

I love you to the point of creation.

I might not say it all the time, but I hope I can show it in a way that is uniquely me.

<33

Point-Set Topology Poll Below The Cut.

I am going to ask you a question about the cofinite topology. Remember, the cofinite topology on X has closed sets being the finite subsets of X, as well as X itself. I will assume X is infinite, so this isn't just the discrete topology. If you haven't taken a course on point-set topology, you're gonna have to sit this one out.

I do not want you to figure out the answer.

I want you to vote on gut instinct alone.

I repeat: do not think. If you spent more than 5 seconds deciding, that is too long. Then you have to vote "I thought and cheated."

If you happen to know the answer for a fact, so aren't relying on intuition, vote "I already knew the answer."

Are you ready? No figuring out. That ofc includes reading the notes.

Reblog for sample size please! I am genuinely curious what people's instincts are about this.

Could you make an Ivory sonic skin

sonic and minecraft don't really mix well, the defining features of sonic are his quills and slender limbs, which you can't really make on a Minecraft skin without him looking buff and bald, so maybe not

Whole-heartedly BEGGING writers to unlearn everything schools taught you about how long a paragraph is. If theres a new subject, INCLUDING ACTIONS, theres a new paragraph. A paragraph can be a single word too btw stop making things unreadable

warmups, warmups, warmups

I love my hair when it’s brushed out. Like usually my hair sits in little ringlets or just simple curls (it’s a mixture of both I even have proof) and then when I brush it out it’s so fluffy and it makes me so happy because when I shake my head, it’s like heaven. Idk sorry. I’m ranting. It’s 12 at night. I should be sleeping but I’m not. But HIIIIII

i doubt kosa will pass. im 100 percent sure it wont pass. we still have time.

...that being said. PLEASE spread awareness about it. even if u cant sign a petition or anything like that, please spread awareness about it.

theres still a chance it CAN pass. and i dont want that to happen.

i have so many ppl that i talk to through the internet. i dont want to lose that.

PLEASE research. PLEASE spread. PLEASE sign and email your represenetives. we still have time.

Beauty and the Beast au is wonderful and perfect for bowuigi, but now im thinking about, like, the other Disney princesses. LIKE CINDERELLA.

So, like, its like, Bowser is hosting a birthday party for jr or smth (I could flesh this out later if I wanted too) and Peach and Mario and Luigi are invited because every one from every kingdom is invited to celebrate jrs squishy face. So peach helps luigi get dressed up cause they're besties 💅🏻 and MARIO IS NOT AN ASSHOLE STOP IT 🗞

So, they go to the party and bowser and luigi meet up and dance and kinda just hang out and chill, something happens idk, and luigi has to leave quickly

Glass slipper comes off

and because luigi was all dressed up bowser couldn't tell that it was him and so he has his turtle team go and find who fits the slipper, they find luigi and peach confirms it was him that night (best wing woman) yadda yadda yadda

Then they kiss and get married, The End 💜

Goodnight children, go to bed or smth

for so long, you lose reality

for so long, you lose reality

Do you use a fake name online?

No, not at all

Yes, fake first name, real/no last name

Yes, fake last name, real/no first name

Yes, fake first and last

Yes, I have a whole fake Internet persona*

Nuance

*so not only do you use a fake name, you might also have a fake hometown, fake likes and dislikes, a fake birth date not in the context of lying about your age, etc.

*so not only do you use a fake name, you might also have a fake hometown, fake likes and dislikes, a fake birth date not in the context of lying about your age, etc.

this one time as a kid i was reading in the school library and i got so into it that when we had a fire drill, and the alarm went off and everyone evacuated and i just like

didn't hear it

i just like

kept reading

so yeah that was the first clue i got that I was mentally ill

a page out of one of my sketch books.

That's a lie. Neurotypicals absolutely mean looking at the eyes. They will accept if you look at the bridge of their nose instead, but will accuse you of not paying attention if you look anywhere else on their face.

you've written this like you're teaching me how to approach a baboon without it ripping my face off

should i just post random stuff on here😭