Be Careful - Tumblr Posts
To whoever needed this today.
This is very important for everyone posting themselves on social media. Be wary and be smart about what you post and say while responding to these.
Gather round kids while I explain this manipulation tactic that men perpetually try to use and why it’s bullshit.
If someone is openly showing interest in you by making disparaging or disappointed comments about your age, they’re trying to put you on the defensive. This guy wants me to try to quell his discomfort, to bring up that I’m only a month shy of 20, etc. - he wants me to try to prove myself to him, that I’m mature and adult enough for a man like him.
His goal is to establish a power imbalance right off the bat. If we were to date, I would constantly be on the defensive, constantly striving to be an equal, constantly trying to prove my “adult” credentials. Anything he says or does or wants from this point on that I object to would just be seen as a strike against my age, proof that he was right and that I’m not mature enough for him. This is how SO MANY men pressure younger individuals (primarily women and girls) into situations and relationships they aren’t comfortable with. If he truly thought I was too young for him, he wouldn’t have messaged me. This is a very calculated move, and it’s fucking gross.
Adult relationships with age gaps are completely fine, but only if all parties view each other as equals. If someone is trying to set you up in a way that ensures that’s never a possibility, run far away.
Okay I don’t normally post on tumblr which i want to change :)
butttt i’m confused because of a recent DM that i got. I saw a blog about it but i forgot who it was by sadly. but it happened to me and i thought i’d share it.
So thats how it started. I never followed this person, interacted with them, and they haven’t interacted with me. Also they had to be fairly new or maybe not who knows?
so yeah i just got offered porn💀
talking to people while holding a beverage is awesome because you don't have to know what to do with your hands and when you don't know what to do with your face you can just take a sip
To all my North Carolina, Florida, and Georgia neighbors. I hope everyone made it safely through the tropical storm. I hope and pray that your families are safe as well.
You’re probably feeling the aftermath like I am here in South Carolina.
Stay safe ya’ll. Praying for everyone. 🙏🏼 💜💜
Klavier doodles!!
Just had someone try to pull the Fake Check scam on me on Insta, and I almost fell for it. Be careful! I blocked this person now.
Signs Of Abuse We Don't Talk About
1. “Am I REALLY being abused? If I was, I wouldn’t be doubting it, right? It’s probably nothing, other people have it worse, who am I to complain?”
2. When they’re in a bad mood, it’s everyone’s problem. Nobody gets to have a good day if they’re not happy.
3. Threats- even if they don’t follow through with them. “I’ll hit you”, “I’m about to do something regrettable”, “Move that dog before I do”, “Do I need to talk to your boss?”
4. You begin to notice a cycle of problems being turned on you- they do something unacceptable, you react normally, they calm down and talk and somehow, it was all secretly your fault. Every conflict ends with you apologizing, no matter who starts it or what they might have done. Every time you think you’re right, every time you think you understand what’s going on, it turns out that you overreacted. You’re too sensitive. You can’t be trusted to know what’s real.
5. You don’t want to be alone with them or spend time with them. Not because they’re abusive, because ‘abuse’ is a pretty strong word- you just don’t feel comfortable around them. It makes you tense. It’s probably nothing
6. Sometimes you want them to hit you. And isn’t that messed up? It can’t possibly be abuse if you’re asking for it. That must mean that you’re the evil one, you’re the manipulative one- you’re not being abused, you just want attention, you just want to be the victim. Even if they did hit you, it wouldn’t be their fault- you gave them no choice. It’s your fault, not theirs. It’s not their fault that they hit you.
7. You don’t know what you’d do without the bad things. It’s not all bad, of course- things are good sometimes, and they can be really sweet. They’re a good person, really- but you can’t imagine a life without the bad parts. What would it look like? It would probably feel pretty empty. Boring, even. What would you do without it? Who would you be?
8. Who are you without them? Do you know? What’s an opinion you have that they don’t agree with? Why do you have it? Do you remember where it came from? Do you trust that source? More than you trust them? Are these difficult questions? Why are they difficult? Is it hard to think about? Why is it hard to think about?
9. Seeing healthy, happy relationships makes you distinctly uncomfortable for reasons you can’t articulate. Young love makes you feel scorn and contempt- happy, outgoing children are hard to talk to. It’s hard to listen when they talk, and it’s hard to look at them when they’re around.You can’t say why- you just need to get away from it.
10. Obviously, the person who wrote this has been through more than you. You haven’t been through anything like that- you’re not abused. I mean, a lot of things on this list clicked with you, but… Nah. Maybe? Maybe you have been abused. But you won’t believe it in twenty minutes. You certainly won’t tell anyone.
Friendly reminder about toxic people:
Toxic people often don't think they're toxic. They might even try and fire back that you're toxic or you're a bad person or you're just like them.
No matter how tempting it may be to argue, don't waste your own effort and mental health trying to convince them otherwise. Drop that person like a hot potato. It's the best, most healthy thing you can do for yourself and them.
You can't make them change their minds kiddo, you can only send them love and healing from the sidelines. They walk their own twisted path with their baggage and you walk yours.
Hi there hello, I'm sure you're wondering either
A) Why tf I just reblogged a bunch of stuff in the span of like 30 seconds
B) What's going on in general
C) What's the point of this post you're reading
D) All of the above
Well dear viewer, I'm gonna give you a TL;DR and then under the cut give a more in-depth explanation, I'll even cut it up into different sections to make viewing easier :)
⚠️ Trigger Warnings ⚠️
Randy (duh), a LOT of swearing (duh), suicide mentions, pedophilia/attempted grooming/etc mentions, queerphobia (transphobia, homophobia, etc), misogyny, mentions of sexual things, slurs, harassment, general 16+ content mentions
Disclaimer
Randy is a 14 year old minor (allegedly) as of the time this post was made, please DO NOT INTERACT with him, just block him and report him as many times as you want. This post's purpose is to spread awareness and maybe hopefully get him banned from Tumblr. Please do not go after, attack, or interact with him or his (supposed) "girlfriend" (he has her tagged at the bottom of his pinned post). I suggest you block (NOT REPORT) his "girlfriend" too, you can never be too careful.
As of the time this post was made Randy's father and school have been contacted, and we are waiting on an update.
Please offer all the victims of Randy unconditional love and support, they deserve that and so much more for all the bullshit this kid put them through, don't you dare even TRY to victim blame them. I will flame you if you attack them at all in any way shape or form, no excuses, ifs, ands, or buts.
I am also a minor in high school (not giving my age for my own safety), so take that how you will. My pronouns are they/them/he/him if you don't know already :D
One more thing before we get into it (if it wasn't obvious already),
GET THE FUCK OFF OF MY PAGE AND BLOCK ME IF YOU'RE QUEERPHOBIC (transphobic, homophobic, etc) OR AGREE WITH RANDY IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM. DO NOT FUCKING INTERACT WITH ME EVER AGAIN.
Thank you, you may now proceed.
Links
The Google Doc (Alllllll the info about this guy in one place, most reliable source of info) | Randy Tag (Second-most reliable source of info, all posts related to him will [hopefully] be here) | Randy's Interactions With Me (proof of him interacting with me) | Google Photos Album (just all of the screenies of proof in one place, I'm gonna tryyyyy to keep this updated as much as I can but no promises)
My response to the 1st ask he sent me | My response to the 2nd ask he sent me (pretty much the same as the first one)
The Short Explanation
So basically this whole fiasco is about @randysworld-multi-fandom-fan or otherwise known as randysworld2009
His crime(s)?
1. Hypocrisy
2. Queerphobia (transphobia, homophobia, the works)
3. Misogyny
4. Perversion (being a pervert)
5. Suicide baiting
6. Pedophilia accusations (all of which are false, and carelessly thrown around)
7. Attempted grooming(?) of fellow minors
8. Slurs (need I say more?)
9. Harassment (in case that wasn't obvious already)
Among other things
He's been interacting with accounts in the following fandoms (as of the time this post was posted):
The Amazing Digital Circus (TADC)
Hellaverse (Hazbin Hotel & Helluva Boss, or HV/HH/HB)
Murder Drones (MD)
SMG4 (Super Mario Glitchy 4)
Yo Gabba Gabba (YGG)
TL;DR this guy is a 5yo Gen Alpha brainrotted kid stuck in a 14yo kid's body, and he's been harassing multiple (mainly TADC) accounts on Tumblr for a bit now, and just being a nuisance and damaging people's mental health.
That's the simple explanation, if you're still not convinced you need to block this guy (and his [supposed] girlfriend) and report him until your hands hurt and/or would like to know more thennnnn
The full explanation + evidence is under the cut ✨
The Long Explanation
Okay so I'm gonna be quoting the Google Doc a LOT here, you'll be able to tell which parts are quoted and which parts are me.
"Randy or randysworld2009 is a Tumblr user that appeared around TADC blogs in the beginning of 2024. Since then, he has built a history of harassing said blogs, mostly roleplay/askblog accounts and artists, forcing roleplay and specially spouting misogyny towards women mods and fem leaning characters, transphobic and homophobic towards queer people. At one point he started getting his information messed up, saying that he was super straight and then later on a “half-bisexual”, also often times approaching people with romantic/sexual intent and then getting angry when those same people state that they are not interested or are above legal age, which he supposedly is not. It is believed that Randy is 14 years old, but at this point, we can’t be certain of what information is true or false. For all we know, his blog could be just a troll."
So yeah, this guy is bad news. That was a direct (formal) quote from one of the victims.
If formal isn't your style, here's a more casual one
"Randy first appeared around the beginning of 2024. He began harassing tadc ask blogs then that led to harassing their mods. Eventually others got involved and Randy basically snapped. He got EVEN MORE batshit and started spouting misogyny, transphobia, and dilution. He's chronically online and believes everything is a roleplay. He's obsessed with getting a girlfriend and has sexually harassed many. he is the horniest bastard you could fucking meet omg"
Another direct quote from another victim, this one he treated the WORST.
(Some) Screenshots
There are more screenshots in the Google Doc and the Google Photos Album I made, but these will be a few tidbits of evidence that will hopefully convince you by now if you're not already. (With some additional commentary/explanation from yours truly underneath each screenie✨) Additionally, all the images will have links to their sources. (Please let me know if they don't work, I'll update this with usable links if that's the case)
Exhibit A - The Bastard Himself
(Mb for light mode jumpscare here, even more reason for your eyes to bleed when looking at this immature fuck's profile)
Just his profile (as of the time this post was posted) so you know exactly who to block and report as many times as possible Exhibit B - His Interactions With Me
This is some evidence of him interacting with me, there's more in the Google Photos Album I made of proof he interacted with me
(Mb for light mode jumpscare again, it's the only way I could show the post and the comments in the same screenie)
His comments on my pinned post, if you saw this or this you know I demanded that he delete his comments on here (while flaming the fuck out of him), so here's a screenie of what they were before he (hopefully) deletes them
The first ask he sent me, my response being the awesome giant rant where I DEMOLISHED him (I'm way too proud of it if you couldn't tell)
All his interactions with me from when he initially found me
The rest of his interactions he's ever had with me
Like the first ask he sent, I answered with the same thing, ANNIHILATING this fucker (still way too proud of it)
Exhibit C - Direct Victim Testimonies (to yours truly) These are asks that I sent to the main 3 victims I had gathered evidence from before gaining access to the Google Doc, they're my main sources so far (send all the love and support to them please [especially Sunny's system they've all been hurt the most from what I can see], they're very sweet outside of all this and more than deserve it)
Dia answered first, their answer helped me gain access to the Google Doc and get a HUGE chunk of the evidence I'll be showing here
Second half of Dia's answer, a summary of the wholeeee situation straight from a direct victim
Sunny was the second to answer my ask, this is what I mean when I say clearly Sunny needs the most love and support out of all the victims (as far as ik) cus like how can you not man- also this is how I found out they contacted Randy's father and school, very big piece of lore (and you'll see why they have soon don't worry)
Lilith was the last to respond to my ask, this being how I found out that it was them specifically that contacted Randy's dad & school (which I commend them for, it was a very good move so bravo to them man genuinely)
Exhibit D - Evidence
And now the moment you've all been waiting for, if this doesn't convince you then shit idk what will-
This post was my first exposure to what Randy is ACTUALLY like and wowee what a doozy man, it started me down the rabbit hole that lead me to making this post rn (make sure you look at the notes [both comments and the reblogs] too those also have even more info aside from everybody FLAMING the fuck out of this kid lolol) Also GO OFF ON HIM GLITCH GET HIS ASS WOOOOO
(Sorry for the light mode jumpscare yet again, evidence is evidence)
1. Misgendering. What the fuck. (Dia's pronouns are they/them) 2. EW. Need I say more??? 3. This post is how I found my main 3 sources up until Dia answered my ask 4. You'll start to see that this post and the following posts show that he's SPECIFICALLY targeting fem-adjacent blogs (including blogs that are run by enbies that he assumes identify as femme and promptly misgenders) and generally being a misogynistic and transphobic BITCH
This post is an example of Randy A) Accusing a fellow minor of pedophilia (very carelessly and incorrectly might I add) B) Not even getting their age right? Hello??? C) This kid clearly does NOT know what the difference between slang and genuine predatory behavior is which shows how fucking SHELTERED this kid must be oh my GOD D) Another example of him misgendering and being misogynistic/transphobic
This post is more proof of him being misogynistic and sexually harassing people, and might I add a HORNY ASS PERVERT Rabid is actually someone I followed way before all this dude, I'm guessing that's how Randy found me unfortunately
After this screenie Dia answered my ask, so all the screenies beyond this point are straight from the Google Doc (some had links to their original posts, some didn't for the sake of anonymity which is completely understandable)
This post backs up what I said regarding the other screenie where Randy assumed Lilith was like 20, istg this kid does NOT know what fact checking is holy fuck This was a certified screenie I got from the Google Doc might I add
This post, another one provided by the Google Doc, is an example of him A) Harassing TADC ask blogs (and it leading to harassing the mods) B) Sexually harassing people and being misogynistic in general He just doesn't know when to quit huh
(Sorry again for the light mode jumpscare this is the last one I promise)
This one didn't have a post linked to it so I only found it cus of the Google Doc (so yay ig you don't have to click the links to the OG posts for more info anymore beyond this point), the mod spitting FACTS
Once again lovingly provided by the Google Doc, wowee this kid sure loves slurs
Conclusion
I know this might not get to many people, but I'm hoping it at least has some sort of positive impact, because I want to try my best to warn as many people as possible and keep him from having any more influence than he already has.
To the victims involved in this: PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEE PLS PLS PLS LMK IF I NEED TO CHANGE ANYTHING I TRIED MY ABSOLUTE BEST TO BE AS ACCURATE AND RESPECTFUL TO YOU GUYS AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE I'D REALLY APPRECIATE FEEDBACK IF I GOT/DID SOMETHING WRONG
Thank you for reading my ramblies on this important news, have a cookie for getting this far and you're an LGBTQIA+ ally 🍪 (plus an additional scoop of ice cream if you're queer 🍦)
And Happy Pride Month, TRANS PRIDE BABYYY
Plus some Anti-Randy spray for the road (lovingly provided by Sunny and Lilith) ✨
(in case of any confusion, the colors kind of mean different things but not really, it's not that important- but red is for trigger warning stuffs/disclaimers and general important things, green is for section titles, blue is for links, and that's about it really-- and yes I did make a subtle RGB joke. Sue me, I wanna be at least a little funny to make light of all this grim dark stuffs. All those super super serious call-out posts can be kind of depressing so I want to find the happy middle ground between serious and lighthearted, it gets the message across and it still feels important without being too much of a downer yanno? Anyway do tell me your thoughts in the comments after dropping a reblog, I would appreciate feedback on what you think of my writing style here :3) (Oh, and if you're wondering what purple means? It's a secret 🥰)
Two dads and their kids, plus the order run.
This post has blood, bruises, and injuries in it! Please be careful before you click on it!!
AGAIN!
BE
CAREFUL
PLEASE!!
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NOW, I hope that gives you some spaces before the art haha
I drew this art like, in August I think, I am not sure, but it was around the time I started my account I think. Maybe before it or after it, give or take
It is based off a reference that for the life of me, couldn't find it in my gallery. Did I delete it? Highly possible, and I didn't save it anywhere so I am sorry 😭 I promise that I will edit this post with the reference if I find it!
This art has Parental Roy and Parental Regien, and I only watched 5 episodes of Mob and then I kinda spoiled it and watched random clips and read few fanfics and wrote one and have 100000 pics of Parental Reigen in my gallery-
Point is This is angsty drawing having both of my favorite papas, and their sons!
Your last warning
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“ Run. You hear me Mob?”
“ I can't leave you, Mas-” “ hey, I know this is hard, but you have to leave. Get out and forget about me.” “ N-no!” “ Mob- kiddo, it’s okay. Shsh, don't cry, Chum.” “ I need you.” “ no you don't, you never did and you never will. You got this, Bud. Now, RUN!”
“ Run and don't look back, Fullmetal.”
“ and make you stay here by yourself? Bull-” “ as much as I want to leave with you, Ed… these guys, they don't joke.”
“ but-”
“ I don't want you to get hurt, darli-”
“ but how am I supposed to grow alone? I a, not ready!”
” Eddie, you are one strong kid, ‘k me son? You will be fine, you hear me? Good. Atta boy, now. Run.”
Tada! What you think 👀
THE BEATLES DRAWTOBER
Day 7 - Solo Career
Decided to give the Traveling Wilburies some representation, or better, give Dylarisson more representation.
That's all I can do for today folks, sorry for missing out the other days but I've been very very busy (as always)
Maybe I'll try to catch up!! Who knows!
NSFW ALPHABET: Malachai
Fandom: Riverdale
Pairing: Malachai x Reader
*TRIGGER WARNING: MANIPULATION, DRUGS,HUMILIATION,DEGRADATION, CUSSING, MANIPULATION, SADISM, NON-CONSENT ELEMENTS( You not being wet)*
Click To Read Here
Are you freaking kidding me ? Seriously something needs to be done about that bot swarm!
I NEED YOUR HELP TO SPREAD THIS
This blog in the photo accompaninstuo91 does not have a proper blog. When you click on their blog, an image pops up asking you if you're 18 and if you say yes or no, it directs you to a virus/porn site that isnt on tumblr
The bots are evolving to actively redirect you/ give viruses to you
Please reblog this so you dont fall victim. Do not click follow or try to go onto their blog, instead the only way to report them is to click the little three dots and click report
@staff please stop shit like this
Are people really doing ads that can induce seizures? Dude, if it got an episode of Pokémon off air what makes you think your add is going to survive long enough to sell anything?
PSA
If you happen to stumble upon an ad that looks like this, DO NOT SCROLL DOWN.
The rest of the ad is a very tall GIF of strobing red light that can potentially cause seizures. You cannot scroll past this ad quickly enough to avoid seeing it.
There seems to be no way to report the ad, so the next best thing is to use an adblocker (if you haven’t already) or even stay off the mobile app.
Please reblog to help spread awareness.
I’ll never forget that one time I was talking to this boy and I rejected him (mind you I almost gave him my address because we were supposed to go out) and he stalked and harassed me for an entire month and put my number on Craigslist (I was getting hundreds of calls and texts every day to the point my phone stopped working).
Men are crazy.
AO3 / ff.net + Artstation 'concept artist' scam
FYI, I personally know two people who got scam comments from the same AO3 account today alone. They were very similar to the ff.net comments in this reddit post, and go something like:
As a concept artist, I really enjoyed your story! The characters were compelling, and the plot kept me engaged from start to finish. Your writing has so much depth, and I could really envision the world you’ve created. While reading, I got some ideas for potential artwork to bring your characters or key scenes to life. I’d love to chat more about a possible collaboration if you’re interested
The main difference between this and a previous wave of similar comments is that this is from a logged-in account as opposed to a guest.
I can't send a support ticket because I haven't gotten any comments from this particular account. Obviously, AO3 volunteers don't need to be flooded with more support tickets right now, anyway, and I'm sure other people have already reported this user. But do yourself a favor and just block Evelynaddison92 on AO3 like I'm about to. The account is 100% a scammer, and there are certainly more accounts like this on AO3, but that's the only one I know of atm.
