Attraction - Tumblr Posts - Page 3
My type? usually masculine/blackcat energy across all genders. Oh those? Those are the star people, yeah, they're made of magic and are so divine it's hard not to see them as above humanity. I don't think they count as crushes. why would it matter if they fit my type? What? No It's not really romantic, it's just like, how I feel about the moon. this is a normal thing for people to feel about people who embody the essence of the universe i think
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Roses aren’t just a symbol of love, they are also the highest vibrational flower on earth — Vibrating at 320 MHz, which is the frequency of love. Roses are incredibly healing and having them around subconsciously raises your vibration!
There is of course a deeper meaning to The Rose, as it symbolizes each individual and how each aspect of us are a divine creation. Each characteristic…the petals, the thorns, the color and the development process, holds significant meaning of who we are.
Gift yourself some roses to honor the goddess within you, raise your vibration and increase beauty and abundance in your life.
THE SECRET MAGIC OF THE ROSE🥀
Goal no reached... yet! #Soon #OneDay #Park #Machine #Attraction #Interpark #igersbarquisimeto #IntaFun #Fun #Adrenaline
Something I've been wondering about is why people don't talk/think about the other types of attraction more. I see people talking about their romantic and sexual attractions but I want to know more about their aesthetic, platonic and sensual attractions. There's probably more than those ones I just forgot what they are and that's not really the point of the post. The point is, I think it's important to talk about what attracts people in other forms of attraction as well as for people to actually think about it. Also are there people who don't feel those other attractions? (lol that's making me thing of Aaesthetic but that's definitely not what they'd be called) Are there people who have gender preferences in those attractions such as a homoplatonic?
I just want to know more about peoples' experiences with these forms of attraction. Please consider talking about this and reblog if you want to. Also, don't forget to drink water.
Elephant trekking Khao Sok National Park, Thailand
Elephant trekking Khao Sok National Park, Thailand
Okay because I keep seeing these posts, I am just gonna cartwheel in here and say something.
It is not inappropriate to be attracted to real people.
Like, entirely setting aside the question of if you think a fantasy character block men is hot, if you are looking at the photos of a real streamer and you've got hearts in your eyes, I can't overemphasize how normal that is. You're good. Don't worry about it.
These people are funny, and they have good voices, and we watch them be entertaining for hours at a time. This is prime real estate for a little crush. And having a crush is fine, the question is about your behaviour once you have a crush.
I am seeing people thinking that having a crush on a streamer means they're dangerously parasocial, or somehow predatory, or abusive, and that ever breathing a word of it is basically sexual harassment. And like, no. Being attracted to real people is not weird. That's arguably less weird than being attracted to fictional characters. The only question is like, once you know that you want to smooch the real person, how do you then treat that person and the people around you?
Seeing a photo of a famous person and thinking "oh hell yeah I want to hold their hand": this is a celebrity crush. I am aroace and I've spent enough time in some people's streams that I start to go "oh man I wonder if they'd like if if we played D&D together" (medusa-flirting). This has happened to regular people looking at attractive famous people probably since someone in the cave man clan was a particularly good hunter and got praise for it. Thoughts in your head don't hurt people. This is fine.
Seeing clips of a famous person and having sexual thoughts about them: this is still a celebrity crush. Your average boring office worker does this with movie stars. Half the people on the bus are doing this with instagram influencers. Runnning a nice r-rated movie in your head is fine, and doesn't hurt anyone. Thoughts in your head still dont' hurt people. This is still fine.
Collecting photos of a famous person and going GOD they're hot to your friends where the famous person won't see it: still a celebrity crush. There is a standing joke in I don't know how many healthy relationships that your partner gets a certain amount of freebies where you could totally cheat if it's Idris Elba, because it's IDRIS ELBA, that's not cheating that's just sense. You can aknowlege someone's sexiness to your friends, and even joke about it, and you're not being predatory, and you're not being inappropriate. Desire is not a crime. People can publically talk about being attracted to a person, and as long as they're not making it that person's problem, they're fine. Having a "hot people" tag on your blog with careful photos gathered from someone's public instagram where they deliberately posted photos of themselves looking hot? I can't over emphasize how fine this is. If people don't want to see hot people on their dash I guess they can unfollow? But you're literally being totally appropriate still.
Getting a nice private group chat with friends who like to talk abouta famous person and talking about how you'd like to knock him up: Look, what else are group chats as adults for? Are you seeing a trend here? As long as you are keeping your attraction to yourself and not making it other people's problem, as long as you're not bothering the real person with it, as long as you aknowledge to yourself that this is never going to happen and this is just a fun fantasy, this is just like, how attraction works. See pretty person, talk about pretty person, have fun with the fictional imaginings you're having— as long as you're not forcing this imagining on someone else, making it their problem, trying to make it real, as long as you know the difference between fiction and real life, you're fine.
Going up to someone's chat and talking about their dick: This is where you cross the line.
Putting NSFW work in someone's fan art tag. Wearing a shirt with porn on it to a meet and greet. Untagging your fanfic so that people who want to read g-rated works about someone are confronted with e-rated works. Asking one of their friends about their relationship status and if they smell good. This is the bad stuff. Don't do THAT. Keep it away from the real person.
The problem is not the attraction, the problem is forcing the attraction on other people. Like, use your brain. There's a segment of attraction that you can put on main, and then there's a segment that you can put on main but you'd better be sure that the person you're talking about is not going to see it, and then there's a segment you should keep for the group chat, but that's just a very basic sliding scale of "how sexual am I being" correlated with "how private am I being about this". If you want to run a full on porn video in your head starring Wilbur Soot, you're not bothering other people with that, you're not being inappropriate. That becomes inappropriate if you are a) putting that in tags where people who don't want to see the porn video would see it b) talking to Wilbur Soot about it. Those are the boundaries. Wait also c) talking to Wilbur Soot's friends about it, don't do that either.
If the person you're attracted to is an adult famous person, like, people being attracted to them is just part of the landscape. I promise an adult celebrity is not sitting in their room being traumatized because people might be thinking about them romantically or sexually. Putting it up in their faces? Bad. Very bad. I hate it. Don't do it. But I see people freaking out about thoughts. Thoughts aren't real. They do not exist in the real world. You can do what you fuckin' want in your thoughts and you are not hurting people.
Like I know we don't want to be inappropriate with streamers, but that doesn't mean that any sexual or romantic thoughts about them are forbidden, or that mild "GOD he's cute" or picspams on main are hurting people, or that off in a closed group of fellow adult enthusiasts you can't be like "so I think streamer would be submissive if I was domming him" and everyone can be like "oh you'd dom him so well". As long as you're keeping it away from people who are bothered by it, you're fine.
Attraction to real people is normal and how attraction works. You're not hurting people if you think they're cute. You're not hurting people if you want to fuck them, either, as long as you're not making them interact with that desire. This is just a simple matter of keeping the higher-rated material away from the people involved.
Attraction to real people isn't inappropriate. You're fine.
by evert2001 on Flickr.Noravank Monastery, one of Armenia’s most popular attractions.
Has anyone else noticed this trend of men's shorts getting shorter in recent years? They used to be like over the knee but now you can see knees and thighs.
Rn it's mostly among gym bros and like trendy rich guys, but it's continuing to spread.
I am LOVING it. Like yesss king show me your legs I want to objectify you😍😍
I used to think romance was a social construct, but I'm changing my view. Here's how I actually think it works
Attraction (i personally don't use the split attraction model because I experience both every time) occurs when I meet someone and they have personality traits and appearance I like
This desire makes me want to be around them, get their attention, and talk to them more
Some of what people describe as romance- like wanting to be around the person or always thinking about them, is just the biological symptoms of attraction
Yet the ways we express this and shape our relationships is shaped by social expectations for how we should act. Like the ideas of marriage, big romantic gestures, maybe even monogamy. Rings? Flowers? Dates? These things are made up.
It's like gender. Something we intrinsically feel which has been drastically shaped by society's norms.
Also if we wanna stop having toxic body standards in general don't shame people attracted to certain traits which are not "conventionally attractive". I can not tell you the number of times when I told someone my boyfriend was 5'1" and was looked at with shock, humor, or even pity. Did you ever stop to ask if I was attracted to short men?
Same applies to women who are flat, men who are not muscular, people who are balding, people with bad skin, people who have certain smells, and anyone who just looks a little weird. These things are all beautiful and normal, and if somebody is able to recognize that and be attracted to it then that is a good thing!
crucially important is not shaming people attracted to fat people or fatness. i think. if we want to love in a world where fatness isnt seen as shameful/disgusting/a moral failing we need to stop shaming ppl who are attracted to fatness. this means fetishists too.
What is the most attractive physical trait in a man (not including personality, even though that's a factor, just pick one based on what he looks like)
If something else or something more specific add it in the tags
And ofc choose the parts that apply to the attractive men in your life, if someone you like doesnt have some of these you can still vote on the poll!
Adolescence
(Original Handmade Book Art Collage: 4 Elements)
Brimming with adoration, this gentle picture is comparitively lovely. 🖤✨ In my mind Phinks already knows about Feitan and he can't help but feel abashedly flattered by it. 🥰👌♥️💓💕✨✨
Hehehe thought this was funny to draw
Thanksgiving Recipes: The Star Attraction Desserts!
My Favorite Version Of Character
I have noticed a ✨theme✨in a lot of my characters so I will give you a step-by-step explanation of my thought process so you can steal it and i'll know I have helped a generation of tumblr users
Step 1: Grab A Mystical Creature
Bonus: They Are Associated With Purity
Think angels. Maybe even aliens? Just something on the supernatural side of things.
Step 2: Make Them Horny :)
Grab that angel character you just made and make them interested in sex or "sexy things". Grab that alien you just made and have be an alien who studies human reproduction with a focus on the actual "sexy" aspect because it's something unfamiliar to aliens.
Either way, they have a focus. A Drive
Final Step: Don't Judge Them For This, They Have Other Issues
One of my angel characters, Gabriel, is basically Nagito-levels of submissive. Complete sexual undercurrent throughout so many of their actions.
And this is never seen as bad. Heck, Gabriel is literally named Gabriel as a reward for being God's Favorite Angel due to his religious devotion and belief in God's message. Since that's all God cares about!
Gabriel has flaws that make life a little awkward but this isn't one of them.
Lesson: Sex Isn't Evil
A character being sex-positive shouldn't be shown as a bad thing. No one should be judged for their sex habits if they are using protection and regularly checking their STD status.
Sex doesn't corrupt. An active sex life isn't incapitable with morality.
If your character genuinely adores sex and this isn't a trauma response or a bad coping mechanism then they should be able to do that. #sex positive