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𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 — the rules and regulations of this blog, if you cannot handle or obey them you may exit the premises. This also gives information about requests and the likes
✮⋆˙ OVERVIEW
⭑ if you got the dni (do not interact) criteria please leave. The dni criteria is only if you are racists, homophobic (I’m straight and cis but I don’t tolerate it) or have similar views. I know sometimes people joke like this, I do myself, but please make it know when you are joking
⭑ this is a multi-fandom blog, meaning I focus on multiple fandoms, so I might not reach your request in time because I’m focusing on those revolving around the fandoms I like better
⭑ this is a series blog. I occasionally do one shots and imagines but mainly make series, and currently this is a platonic and romantic blog, though I prefer platonic and am more comfortable with it
⭑ this is not a spoiler free blog. I’m ok with spoilers but I will always put warnings for those who don’t like them, just make sure you read
⭑ this is a male/gn reader only blog, currently, yes I am a woman and yes I like male reader. I don’t fetishize it, but I like reading them more
⭑ do not translate / plagiarize / or modify my work. Contact me if you would like to translate it and we will discuss it. If you plagiarize I will make a post about it and report you, along with modification. Reposts are allowed ONLY if you use the button and not just copy/paste my work claiming it’s yours
⭑ lastly NO NSFW
✮⋆˙ WRITING / STYLE
⭑ my writing style and my design style is inspired by those I read. I try not to blatantly copy but if it is to similar I will, understandingly, change it
⭑ my writing style might change depending on how important the series are. For example if it’s chainsaw man or my hero academia I’ll write seriously with a plot in mind, but if it’s saiki k I’ll be lenient
✮⋆˙ ASKS / REQUESTS
⭑ if you request or ask a story idea please be specific otherwise it may not turn out how you expected or wanted
⭑ an example would be “hi! Can I please get a male!himiko toga reader in chainsaw man?”
⭑ once again I only do male/gn reader so if you send a request saying “can I get a female sanemi in mha” I will, only if I like the idea, change it into a male!sanemi in mha
⭑ please check if I am even taking requests as well
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آيات عن حُسن الخُلُق في القرآن .
Verses about Good manners in the Qur'an .
Common Murres are incredibly shy, and will submerge themselves to escape attention; this behaviour led to the early eighteenth century slang ‘de Murre’, meaning ‘of the Murre’. The phrase was generally applied in a derogatory manner to young women who shrank away from the advances of noblemen at banquets and other social gatherings, but as times and social mores changed being ‘demure’ became a sign of good upbringing.
Dinner date with rouge
On the one hand, I sympathize with those who talk about kids in company. Children are people and as such their doings can be of interest.
On the other hand, I sympathize with those who find this practice exasperating. Much of talk about children is really shop-talk between people who care for children and want to know better ways of doing it. I think it is good manners to avoid shop-talk of all kinds in company, unless you are sure that all those present are in the shop and want to talk about it.
Communication is the key in every kind of relationship, friendship or more. It is also polite and also shows respect for someone, the thing that I can't stand is to be ignored. If you are busy, let me know. If you are not in the mood and need space, let me know. If you are finished with me and don't want to talk to me anymore, just let me know. It only takes two seconds to let someone know instead of plainly ignoring them, communicate. It's the mature thing to do.
~ northern-spark-of-creativity
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If you take the bus, wave to the driver and thank them as you're getting off the bus.
Being a bus driver is an underappreciated and difficult job but still very vital to society. They still have to do customer service and deal with rude and even aggressive passengers, and on top of that have to deal with traffic and other drivers all day (and let's face it, there's a lot of bad drivers out there who aren't considerate about sharing the road). All while providing an invaluable service of getting us where we need to go. Showing them some appreciation can go a long ways for someone doing such an important job that usually gets little to no recognition or thanks.
Table Etiquette
A crash course on fine dining/ being invited to dinner at someone’s place. Even if you don’t fine dine, I’d recommend you start practicing these habits in any establishment so that they come to you naturally.
Remember : A typical four-course meal consists of a soup, an appetizer, an entrée, and dessert.
If you’re standing at some sort of a networking session/ mixer:
Keep at least one hand free. If you are standing, have only a drink or food in one hand, never both. Hold a drink in your left hand so that you have a clean hand for a handshake. You can eat and drink while sitting, but it is always better to stand and greet.
Sitting/ dining out/ invited to dinner:
1. Wait to be seated by the staff/ host.
2. Napkin on your lap the minute you sit down at the table.
3. if you're looking at the menu, make sure to have the bottom, or at least one part of it, still touching the table, even if your impulse is to bring it closer to your face. Don’t lift the menu off the table to your nose.
4. Once you sip from a glass, you must sip from the exact same place on that glass for the rest of the evening.
5. If there’s a breadbasket and butter on your table - don’t dip the bread in the communal butter plate. Take a piece of the butter with your butter knife, put it on the side plate, then spread that butter on your bread. Don’t double dip! Your bread plate is the one on your left, by the way. And your glass will be on your right.
6. If your table has a lot of silverware - start from the outside and work your way in.
7. Dishes should be passed in a counter-clockwise flow. Don’t reach across the table.
8. Lay you fork and knife diagonally across the plate, side by side, pointing at 10:00 and 4:00 on a clock face. This signifies to the wait staff that you have finished.
9. Keep the rim of your plates as clean as possible, as a sign of respect to the staff.
Cultural differences:
1. Whilst eating Indian food/ in India, always eat with your right hand. The left hand should never touch the food. This is also seen in the Arab world - use only the thumb, index finger and middle finger to pick up food.
2. In Korea, one waits for the senior most person in the room to sit and eat, and is followed suit. Sharing is caring - food is often ordered to share with each other rather than individual plates.
3. Chopsticks etiquette (general): don’t stick and leave your chopsticks in your food perpendicular to the table, it signifies death. Don't set your chopsticks down pointed at another person at the table. Don't point your chopsticks at other people around the table.
4. France: bread on the table is meant to accompany the main dish, not as an appetiser.
What are some table manners that one should keep in mind if they’re eating food/ eating with someone of your culture?
Very well said.
It is said: when your way of thinking exceeds your appearance in politeness, your feelings are more fragrant than your perfume, and your manners are more attractive than your looks - only then will you become elegant.
Chinese chopstick etiquette
There are certain rules for using knives and forks, so why wouldn't there be rules for chopsticks? Now that I know how to use chopsticks properly and (hopefully) without offending anyone, here are some main rules.
No playing with chopsticks In other words, using them like drumsticks and swordfighting with your table neighbour is not permissible (at least not in public).
No sticking your chopsticks up vertically into your bowl Shrines to deceased people usually have a bowl of rice or sand with 2 incense sticks sticking upwards, which is why sticking your chopsticks into your bowl can have similar unpleasant associations.
No pointing your chopsticks at people Pointing your chopsticks at someone is also a no go, as it's seen as hostile.
No digging around You should take from the top layer and avoid digging around the plate in search of the food.
No eating directly from the main plates You should first place the piece of food that you took onto your own plate, and then eat it, instead of eating straight from the source.
No tapping against the bowl Tapping against your plate is considered to be impolite and should be avoided when possible.
So aparently the reason you're not supposed to put your elbows on the table is because nobles back in the horrid past has worthless excuses for tables and if you were to look at the things wrong, or god forbid lean on one, the'd straight up collapse. Because they were made from trestles.
This shit.
So basically the nobles couldn't afford good tables and we should all point and laugh at those dead people for their punny, insufficient tables of poor craftsmanship.
The vast majority of celebrities really don't want attention from strangers when they're just walking their dog or having a date with someone. I've joked around on here about stanning certain actors I admire, but I want to be very clear that it's a joke; by 'stan' I mean I look at the stuff they've shared publicly on their social media. Privacy is something everyone needs, and I feel...really protective, of that. <3
— Chappell Roan via Instagram
"We aren't raising kids; we're raising adults. If you want a kind 16-year-old, teach a 6-year-old kindness and give them 10 years of practice. If you want a __ adult, teach a kid how to be __ and give them __ years of practice." - Jon Acuff