Problematic - Tumblr Posts

7 years ago

!Warning!: sadness

Do you know that feeling, when you are scrolling through the tumblr tags of something you really like and come upon a conflict. Sometimes it's a problematic post, sometimes it's a post pointing out problematic things about the fandom or a ship or the show or the writers. And you just get that churning feeling in your gut, like heavy stones of pain. And then you click on a tag, for some reason, that you know will have fights in it. And sooner or later you will come upon posts, that criticize things you also like/think, and you don't know if the person telling you not to do that is right, or the other person that counters with another argument. And you know, it's everyones right to have their opinions of things, but still the fighting somehow hurts. And by the time you leave the tags, you have this mountain of ice cold stones in your stomach. Do you know that feeling, like everytime you witness that, a tiny part of your fandom joy gets crushed?

Cause I do.


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7 months ago

"Not all men"

You're right, my favorite fictional man would never probably would but he's pretty so idc


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IMPORTANT:

This is a proshipper blog. I use shipping (and sometimes headcanons) as a way of coping with my trauma. This may result in me posting some problematic, uncomfortable, or undesirable content. I WILL put TW's on my posts, but I wanted to make it clear that my content may be triggering or uncomfortable for some people.


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1 year ago

maybe this is problematic but idk i think reclaiming slurs for urself is fine and good but i think when u start using them for other people without asking. especially strangers. that's not okay actually. like it's totally fine to use them for urself but i think keeping in mind that they are slurs. is important. like maybe we shouldnt be just throwing them around


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5 months ago

Bro, I just saw that maluma was on the diddy list. HE'S MARIANO'S VOICE ACTOR! WHAT IF HE DOESN'T APPEAR IN ENCANTO TWO CAUSE OF THIS?! YOU HAVE ONE FUCKING JOB AS THE ACTOR OF ONE OF MY FAVORITE CHARACTERS AND ITS TO NOT BE PROBLEMATIC UNTIL: A. WHATEVER YOU'RE IN IS OVER OR B. YOU'RE DEAD! Its seriously not that hard, I really hope it's a lie or something else cause I'll be so disappointed if we don't see Mariano because of this. ☹


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3 years ago

Our relationship is one of love and hate,

One day you care so deeply,

The very next you’re a flake.

You speak so, so much,

But tell me nothing at all.

You’re unreachable,

Surrounded by iron-clad walls.

You are without aim,

And have so little ambition,

But your creativity is marvelous.

Your smile is contagious.

You’re a little too honest,

With everyone but yourself.

You’re in dire need of a reality check,

Stop letting others put you down.

You’re worth more than you know.

You could do anything you desire,

But you fear the unknown.

A world of choices,

Yet you’re undecided.

Is your fear of failure,

Why you feel so daunted?

The calluses on your hands,

From writing, writing, and writing.

The aches in your being,

From everyone else you’ve been serving.

You got no time for yourself,

Darling, isn’t that unnerving?

It’s your life that you are living.

Our relationship is one of hate and love,

Regardless of the mixed feelings,

You should reach for the stars and above.


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1 year ago

I'm sorry and I really tried to hate him but Kurtwood Smith is forever my problematic babygirl.


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6 years ago
The Problem with ‘Problematic’ Fiction: A Defence of Vampiric Alpha Billionaires
(Image Source) Why is fantasizing about being in a semi-abusive relationship with a hot billionaire any worse than fantasizing about ...

(Image Source) Why is fantasizing about being in a semi-abusive relationship with a hot billionaire any worse than fantasizing about ...


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5 months ago

Intro

A problem blog for a problematic audience.

Prince that found his long-lost princess 💌

Lover of dark fantasy, medieval times, supernatural creatures, and other morbidities.

Identification: Gothic, medieval, magical, fantasy, coquette, dollette, emo, scene, punk.

If you don't like what I post or retweet, then just block me. Don't report.

DNI if you are: rude, untrustworthy, prone to cancelling others because of what you don't like, or if you want to know a stranger's personal details off the bat. (they're personal for a reason)

Get to know me first and I'll open up to you if I like you.


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5 months ago

hiii

ive never written an intro post b4, so please be paitent.

im ***** but you can call me dainty/daint. im a saphic (?) 18 yr old trans girl

minors please do not interact, u will be blocked immediately.

this page is just a side for my horny postings, feel free to send anything in my asks ;)

ill probably not be posting any pictures, because im pre-transition medically (hoping to start asap) as well as just not the easiest on the eyes, i am on the bigger side but if i like you i’ll send pics/personal accounts if you ask nicely 🩶

switch, into some dark shit but half the time i just want attention

likes, including but not limited to;

sis x sis

CRYING

humping

Cnc

very light petplay

blood

spit

sweat

oral

impact play

zombie/undead stuffs

praise/degradation

eh?;

“tgirl worship”/fem chasers

vomit

names like “mommy”

sexual cutting

hard no;

mom x daughter

“____breaking”

detrans

ab/dl

feet

diapers

virgin, honestly very confused about my sexuality

obvious disclaimer thst this is all fictional, incest and rape are BAD! but apparently this needs to be said ig


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3 years ago

fifth harmony: the mess

i have to get this off my chest! as someone who tries their hardest to not stan or support unproblematic people, i’ve always been confused by the camila cabello situation. i know she said the n word, i’ve seen the screenshots of her facebook where she called normani it too but then it was later revealed that it was fake by a zayn stan who made them since she didn’t go by camila until after fifth harmony became a thing? what are your thoughts on that? as for fifth harmony as a group, it was simply a mess. overworked teens that were being guided by selfish, money hungry people. they were problematic as a whole: ally’s character in the takeover videos that many said resembled a black women, dinah’s “trump” snapchat, lauren’s passed saying medication did nothing for people with depression, normani mimicking asian people when lauren was doing her nails...  

i also want to say, why do people feel the need to mock camila cabello’s name. she’s a cuban-mexican and i see white people mock her name as if other people who aren’t her don’t have names that aren’t easy to pronounce. regardless of her actions- you don’t fight racism with racism, especially when you don’t care about holding people accountable. a lot of people have gotten away with being problematic and it had been swept over the rug.. i need to know what you all think, too.


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5 months ago

here is your daily reminder that a DNI goes both ways~! Have a good day/night meowlings ☆〜(ゝ。∂)

Here Is Your Daily Reminder That A DNI Goes Both Ways~! Have A Good Day/night Meowlings

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1 year ago

Ask me about how the concept of Disney's Brave had a lot of potential but the finished product was incredibly tonedeaf, childist, and failed to address internized misogony. Ask me about that.


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8 months ago
I Miss My Young Master. Your Butler Waits For You, My Lord.

I miss my young master. Your butler waits for you, my lord. 🖤


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