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may i also add that its not always adults (victims and/or perpetrators)?

coc r@pe exists

also that you dont have to touch someone to rap3 them?

non-contacte r@pe exists

all types of sa victims are valid, no matter your gender, age, weight, race etc.

all types of sa are NOT OKAY, no matter your excuse rap3 is the ONLY crime that cannot be validated, and is therefore the worst crime (imo)

boys will be held accountable for their actions and if that means getting my hands dirty, so be it

I'm posting this on my less active blog for my sanity and also for maybe less attention it something idk.

Tw for sexual assault and rape.

Don't read past if those can trigger you or you just don't wanna read it. If you do thank you I think, idk how to feel about it all.

Anyways. I was raped last night but someone I consider my brother. For context I'm 17 the kid is 13-14. I won't go into detail for my own sanity but also because it's unnecessary. It happened at night, the two other kids were sleeping next to us, and I woke up to being assaulted. As the person I call mama #2 said I could have easily pushed him off or beat the fuck this kid. But I didn't. I woke up to it, which threw me very off guard. Not only that but I was molested as a child and raped 3 times before this, so I already have trauma surrounding this stuff. So when I woke I was specifically thrown back into the time I was 7. I could tell the difference between the flashbacks and what was happening but I was still paralyzed. I wanted to cry or move or tell him to leave or something but I was stuck. So yeah. I was raped. The kid didn't mean it with malicious intent, he was just curious and fucked up big time. What he did was wrong but he's still a kid. So I have chosen to let his mom (mama #2) handle it. But now I fear I have lost another group of people I loved for speaking about it. Idk. I also feel extremely guilty because I have a boyfriend. He's already told me he still loves me and everything but I can't help but feel like I did something wrong. On top of that I am responding to this trauma with intrusive sexual thoughts. I want to throw up and carve my skin off or kill myself right now. But I won't. I understand that my body is coping, like I said I've been raped 3 times before this. I just idk. I need an outlet that I know can't really effect me and Tumblr is the best place I guess. Anyways. Yeah. Support victims and stay safe.

For the ones unaware, an on-duty female doctor was brutally raped and murdered on the night of August 9th in India. There have been waves of mass protests all over the country regarding this issue.

The doctor, a junior resident working a 36 hours shift was resting in the hospital's seminar hall when she was subjected to this gruesome torment. Her body was found in an incomprehensible state half-naked in the same seminar hall the next morning.

I urge you to stand by truth. This is something no woman should face, after multiple years of studying and training, we do not enter this field to be subjected to inhumane treatment.

I was born to live.

I was born to dream.

I was born to achieve.

Any other human deserves the same chance at life that you and I do.

Don't let your silence become an enabling factor for inhumanity.

Valangel fankids (left is Lucius, right is Cecilia)

BACKSTORY TIMEEEE

TW R@PE AND TRAUMA. Do not force yourself to read if these topics make you uncomfortable. Be kind to yourself.

...okay anyway Valentino r@ped Angel, without using protection, impregnating him. For the sake of this AU Angel's intersex now, Husk is trans, got this idea while scrolling on @dragon-spaghetti 's blog. So Angel doesn't find out for a while, but when he does, he freaks out. Has a mental breakdown and everything. Husk finds and comforts him. Anyway Angel doesn't wanna get an abortion cuz he had intercourse with Husk prior to the Valentino incident, and he doesn't wanna risk getting rid of what may or may not be Husk's child.

Fast forward.

Angel lives stressed out for the next nine months, eventually giving birth to twins Cecilia and Lucius (Lucia at that time, he's trans) and Husk helps name them. Here are the twins' younger designs.

At first glance, Angel knows they're Valentino's and not Husk's. Devastated, he has a meltdown—and can you blame him? He eventually gets PTSD from this. Husk comforts him again, even though he's also really stressed. Angel doesn't want them to grow up in an abusive environment like the Vees' Tower, so he keeps the twins a secret from Valentino. For a few months, they reside in the hotel under mostly Husk's care (Angel can barely stand even just looking at them, they're a really sensitive topic for him) but Valentino eventually finds out about his offspring's existence (Cuz Vox, who found out through technology at the hotel, told Val about them) so naturally Valentino takes advantage of his soul contract with Angel to force him to turn them in. Angel naturally has an instinct to protect them, because that's how parental instincts work. Anyway yeah so that's it for today. Valentino has Cecilia and Lucius now. Part two coming eventually if this gets enough notes I guess idk

No I am not a proshipper, I do not ship Valentino x Angel and I understand that it's abusive.

mfers might come after me for this but… even though I’m a dude, & one who got all the masculine genes from my dad no less, i still feel i would get along with nicole from co09. because im a very calm & nonchalant person a lot of the time, & that i’ve practically become impervious to all insults because 90% of them are things i already know are either true & i don’t care about or they are things i know i’m already on the path to fixing. also, while nicole does have a strong belief that all men who like anime &/or play games are all pedos & rapists, i have VERY strong cases to prove i’m neither of those. someone very dear to me was assaulted & r-word’d by a pedo & i’ll be damned if i ever end up like him, & also i myself have been molested before. so all in all i feel like i could get along with her.

They also targeted me as well! Please be aware

Tw below cut: Mentions of R@pe, LOTS of slurs, cursing

I typically don’t interact, but I decided to get as much proof about them being a horrible person by just replying with random meaningless things (hopefully to annoy them that I didn’t give them the attention they wanted after while) they threatened to r@pe me and gooseworx, which is just downright disgusting. I had no clue he was targeting all you others too. So I’ll expose this, and ask you to PLEASE block them!

Hey guys, just figured I’d tell y’all that you should probably block @/dogfucker2000 since I woke up and got pictures of gore from them in my askbox- look I’m into horror topics, but even I don’t want that stuff in my askbox, unfortunately tumblr won’t let me report gore and such without a post to go off of, and I definitely wasn’t going to answer that ask, also the person seems racist in general, they said the n slur with the hard r in the comments of their own stuff.

Look I already knew with the name they’d be off when I looked in my notifications :/ but like, dude, I don’t want to see an image of a person who doesn’t have a face because it was skinned off, their eyeballs gone, and just the bony remains of their body

Also sorry for the tags y’all, but, I wanna make sure this spreads so that others are aware of it and don’t have to deal with it! @gummy-axolotl @chaos-ace @rabid-mercenary16 @bunnybunnsowo @dia-smthidk and anyone else, these are just some of the first mutuals that came to mind that I know could reach a ton of people about the topic

Tw rape

Bro I love that tumblr and Wattpad have x readers black readers but fuck why does it always have to be about sex. Like why can’t we get a 10k word fanfic about us falling in love and being loved gently with some background drama or action. It’s always sex or rape which is low key weird. Like I get people are into that or write it because of trauma but it’s always sex, violent sex, or just literally rape. Or they’re racist stereotypes in the fanfic which is a whole other story. On Ao3 they’re x reader fanfics that are fun, have adventure, a little bit of drama, and a splash of sex. Also it’s with the same people it’s either attack on Titan, Jujutsu Kaisen, or My hero Academia. Which is cool but it’s usually only them. At this point imma try and make a x black reader fanfic because this shit is exhausting. But I have work so someone dm if they wanna work on a fanfic together because things need to low key change.

I strongly agree with most of this. however,

(tw)

if someone r@p3s someone, that isn’t on the same level of just oh yeah, everyone hurts people it’s human.

when someone is physically abused by say their parents there whole life, never getting an apology, it’s not just human.

is it just a human mistake to yell at someone? mhm. is it just a human mistake to break someone’s heart? i’d say so. is it just a human mistake to spread rumors about someone? yes.

I could go on and on about this. what’s especially important I argue is :

forgiveness is good, yes. however, you don’t need to feel guilty for hating your harmer, or viewing them poorly.

am I taking this out of proportion? maybe! but, that’s my view.

they are people, but saying they are an abusive person isn’t wrong-that’s an adjective in this case, I argue.

you can hurt others. you already have. that's part of being human.

the way so many people talk about it in language like "abuser", "monster", "predator", like people who cause harm are a separate species?

its bad! like babygirl, there is no separate species of inherently evil people! we're all just people, and sometimes people hurt other people.

you are capable of hurting others. and having caused harm to others doesnt make anyone inherently evil. if you cannot recognize these two things, you're not a safe person to be around

Hello,

My name is Calvin Phil, and this is my first time reaching out to you like this. I am a queer transgender refugee, originally from Uganda, and I represent nearly 300 other LGBTQ+ individuals here in Gorom Refugee Camp in South Sudan. I fled my home country five years ago, initially finding refuge in Kenya's Kakuma Refugee Camp, where I lived for four years before relocating to Gorom earlier this year. Unfortunately, life hasn't changed much for us.

We face daily persecution, discrimination, beatings, and threats, barely surviving each day by God's grace. The ongoing civil war in South Sudan, coupled with the strict laws against LGBTQ+ individuals, has made it even more difficult for us to survive. We are starving due to limited access to basic needs like food, proper medical care, and housing. Lesbians and transgender people are particularly vulnerable, often subjected to rape, while the surrounding communities remain hostile and homophobic.

I am writing to you in desperate need of help and support. We exist, but we have been silenced at gunpoint.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Sincerely,

Calvin Phil🌈

my god. I can’t even type a response.

I told you I was going to find you princess.. now look what happened.

Apologetic CNC but flipping the script. Instead of "I'm sorry, I need this" it's "I know you need this, it's okay."

"Therrrre you go, tell me how much you hate it and how disgusting I am." "Go ahead and cry for me, let's get it all out." Holding you still and making you take it while we get those emotions out.

“Those poor boys”

“She deserves to be punished too.”

“I’m not saying I support rape, but-”

“Sorry to say - she deserved it.”

“She put herself in harm’s way”

“But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape.”

“She ruined their lives.”

"ShE wAs WeArInG a ShOrT sKiRt ShE wAs AsKiNg FoR iT"

I am around shirtless guys all summer. None of them get harrassed by me.

I am around girls in short skirts sometimes. None of them get harrassed by me.

I wear short skirts sometimes. None of my companions harrass me.

If you are the problem, you are the problem. Don't fucking blame it on skirts

NOT ALL MEN. Yes, but if I gave you a box of cookies, and told you some of those were made of shit, you wouldn't eat any of them.

NOT ALL MEN. Yes, but you still don't go play Russian Roulette because there is a chance you might die.

NOT ALL MEN.

Yes, we know. But that doesn't mean I don't have the right to be scared if a man starts walking behind me at night when I'm alone. Because it's 1 in 5 the chances that he wants to rape me. So, yes, not all men, but that doesn't mean anything.

TW IDOLIZATION OF A R4PIST/SEXUAL ABUSER

This fandom… horrible, horrible place really

I never wanted to make a post about h3lluva boss or H4zbin h0tel or anything from v1vz13p0p. But here i am. Quick reminder THIS MAN IS A FUCKING R4PIST. But hey! It’s alright it’s all because he has a “cool” design. Yeah saying that is like saying that the most fucked up killer in the world who committed countless of messed up shit is “hot”. No, No in anyway that you’dfind this him guy “cool” he is far from it! Don’t find him hot or make fan merch/edits about him he is a sexual abuser! Viv please control you and your goddamn fandom because right now you are encouraging people to like a r4pist

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSdc7GtDT/?k=1 why is nobody talking about this?

Part 1 Writing Advice: Sexual Trauma As Justice And As A Lesson

Tw: This post is specifically dedicated to SA(sexual assault). This is a highly sensitive topic that I will do my best to present accurately and thoroughly.

This is a somber occasion where I will do my utmost to treat this serious and highly personalized experience with the best grace I can muster. I apologize but this is a serious topic that deserves to be talked about in a "everyday way" and not in a stuffy "fake sad" way because sexual trauma happens everyday.

For important hotlines relating to this issue, check out: https://rainn.org/resources

This is a very sensitive topic which personally relates to my family so I obviously need to be the most detailed I can be.

Again, to reiterate, this post will cover highly serious topics involving sexual violence, the threat of sexual violence, and prison rape in both media and in the real world. Don't pressure yourself to read this. Your mental health is more important then some person's thoughts.

So, let's get started!

Why Did You Need This?

Before we continue, I need to ask for your reasoning when including representation of victims/survivors of sexual abuse/trauma.

If it's something that can be "not included" and won't change your plot at all then I highly implore you to not include it.

You won't believe how many "rom-coms" or romance-based media decides to include an assault scene for the sake of a dramatic rescue. It's not fun. It's not romantic. And it's not necessary!

The reason that sexual trauma is treated with more "delicate sensibilities" is not because physical trauma and emotional trauma are not serious or deserving of respect. It's because sexual trauma is often not treated with the respect that physical abuse and mental abuse is.

If you are planning to use sexual trauma/harrassment/rape/prison rape/anything involving assault into:

A comedic punchline which will never be brought up

A highly inspirational hypersexualized revenge flick about a hot badass woman being badass

Another "don't drop the fucking soap" joke

An insult for a character's masculinity/desirability

A transphobic/racist/homophobic example of danger

A meaningless drivel with vague messages about "forgiveness for others"

I will throw you out of my minecraft server! And account! But, if you are sure that you need sexual trauma to be in your stories, let's continue.

2. Sexual Trauma Is Not Justice

What do all of these movies/shows have in common?

Iron Man 2(2010)

The Powerpuff Girls(2000)

Wedding Crashers(2005)

Cop Out(2010)

Without A Trace(2006)

Buffy The Vampire Slayer(1998)

Deadpool 2 (2018)

They all utilize rape as a form of karmic punishment from Tony Stark's "don't drop the soap" line which is meant to allude to prison rape to Deadpool 2's usage of an electrical cable on Juggernaut to sexually assault them.

Of course, most of these movies/shows "only" use punchlines about anal rape although in the case of Wedding Crashers there is a huge reliance on rape so be aware!

A common uniting theme behind these instances of sexual violence is the fact that the audience is meant to react to these scenes with a satisfied snicker about how the bad guy is suffering.

Let me reiterate, these "jokes" and "funny sexual assault" scenes are said by "funny", "sympathetic" women and men who are threatening sexual violence against "unsympathetic" bad people.

There are multiple problems with this so let's start!

Rape is never okay.

When these scenes have "loveable" characters either threatening/utilizing/physically raping "undesirables" you have just recreated a system where rape is acceptable when it's done to bad people. Sometimes these bad people are too sexually positive, too chauvinistic, or just too bad.

And it's this belief of "punishing sinners" which allows the systematic use of prison rape as a way of controlling prisoners to flourish.

There is no such thing as "justifiable rape"

This Isn't Justice

This is revenge. Rape and the threat of it can nevver be used as a form of justice. The goal of justice is ultimately redemption.

Sexual violence, as a form of revenge, could never be used to positively benefit society.

Prison Rape Is Not Inevitable

Prison Rape can be prevented. It's the powers that control the prison system that consciously allow prison rape to happen.

This is because prison rape is a widely sanctioned way to punish "undesirable" prisoners such as transgender and mentally disabled prisoners.

Again, it's that mention of "undesirable" which demonstrates how promoting the positive usage of sexual violence in Media effects the real world

There are solutions to the prison rape epidemic such as mass deincarceration through actual justice-orientated redemption,

Conclusion: I desperately wanted to talk about how sexual violence and the threat of sexual violence is highly influencial in mass media and how this representation impacts the world that you and I inhabit.

Every single repetition of "sexual assault as a justice-orientated lesson" tortures the hundreds of thoudsands of people in justice system who are brutalized by rape and who never recover.

”you weren’t/aren’t…

scared” because i fought back?

humiliated” because i made jokes about my trauma?

a victim” because i didn’t speak out about it?

old enough to remember?” because i was 8?

a normal girl.” why do you think this is?

clueless.” again, i was 8, do you expect a child to expect that from a family member?

i lost who i was at so young. i don’t know if ill ever find myself again.

Out of all rape/SA scenes from Greek Mythology the moment when Zeus leaves Persephone pregnant with Zagreus is the most disturbing one in my honest opinion. Besides the fact that parent/child incest is very rare among gods to the point where it seems that this was one of the few exceptions to them where incest "went too far", the manner in which Nonnus chose to describe the moment was completely disgusting:

Nonnus, Dionysiaca 6. 155 ff : "[Demeter hid her daughter Persephone away in a cave in Sicily to avoid the many suitors :] Ah, maiden Persephoneia! You could not find how to escape your mating! No, a Drakon (Dragon-Serpent) was your mate, when Zeus changed his face and came, rolling in many a loving coil through the dark to the corner of the maiden's chamber, and shaking his hairy chaps he lulled to sleep as he crept the eyes of those creatures of his own shape who guarded the door. He licked the girl's form gently with wooing lips. By this marriage with the heavenly Drakon, the womb of Persephone swelled with living fruit, and she bore Zagreus the horned baby, who by himself climbed upon the heavenly throne of Zeus and brandished lightning in his little hand, and newly born, lifted and carried thunderbolts in his tender fingers [i.e. Zeus marked him as his heir].

And look, I know that back then women were considered men's property (more or less, and depending on the city we're talking about as well), or that Ancient Greeks didn't have the word "rape". However, that doesn’t mean that people had absolutely no idea that there's a difference between wanting to have sex and being penetrated without consent. In Homeric Hymn To Demeter, for instance, it is emphasized to us that Persephone was screaming and crying for help and she's described as "unwilling" so that the reader could understand how horrifying the entire situation was. Meanwhile, Nonnus describes this entire scene as a voyeuristic one, not as a disturbing, traumatising experience. At this point it could be interpreted as sad porn, and the fact that he didn't have the interest to write how was Persephone feeling after being assaulted or after her own son died leads indirectly to her objectification.

At this point Nonnus seems to be an ancient coomer.

"You don't understand! If Medusa isn't portrayed as a Rape Victim then people would no longer have a Symbol of Rape/SA Survivors!"

Literally Greek Mythology:

Note: I know that some of them aren’t 100% accurate, but this list is from Wikipedia so yeah...