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This user was psychologically abused for years.
This csa survivor hates MAPs.
This user can’t talk about what happened to them.
This trauma survivor is getting better.
Bringing this one back. I've been reading some irritating things. Fellow survivors, I'm afraid some of you may need to take notes too.
Here’s an idea:
(Sorry friends, this is an angry one)
Maybe you should fuck off trying to tell survivors how they should feel about their abusers. Here’s a few reasons why:
1. You don’t know shit about us or our stories.
2. Your experience does not in any way dictate or predict the experiences of others.
3. Many survivors have been taught not to trust themselves. You are contributing to this problem with condescending advice that contradicts our instincts and mental health needs.
4. The way we feel can change throughout the grieving/healing/recovery process. It’s confusing enough on its own; we don’t need your uninformed opinion further muddying the waters. We need to work this out.
5. Some of us can only move forward through forgiveness and reconciliation. Some of us can only forge ahead fueled by our rage and hate. Some of us fall somewhere in the middle. These are all acceptable and reasonable.
6. Only we can decide what is best for us. You do not know what is best for us.
Someone: I hate you
Me: No one hates me more than myself
My friend just asked me why I’m not afraid to risked my life because I earlier I just ran across the road to get some old lady’s vase that was about to be hit by a car (which I learned later that it’s her late husband’s treasure).
So how do I explain that I’m ready to die at any time? How do I explain that I already write a letter for my friends and family? How do I explain that I’m just too afraid to end my life myself?
My dream
Teacher: What do you want to be in the future?
Friend: A doctor
Friend: An astronaut
Friend: To end world hunger
Me: Dead
Teacher: ....
Everyone: ....
Me: ...preferably anytime soon
Favorite color
Everyone have a favorite color. My mother is purple, my father is navy, my brother is blue, and my sister is yellow.
Mine’s a bit unusual. Weird even. It’s not white or blue, not green or red, not brown or grey. Some say that it’s not even a color.
The color of my parents’ eyes when they see me. The color of the voices that haunt me in my dreams. The color of the ink I used to write my bio. The color of my grades. The color of my 7 year-old self's eyes if they could see me now.
The color of failure. My favorite color. Disappointment.
Abuse is never OK
Any gender can be abused please reblog if you care about abuse in the music industry
Please everyone, start talking and posting about #JusticeForAteen.
ATeen is a 10 member KPop boy group which debuted this year. Recently 6 of the members have reported that they were sexually abused by the CEO’s Wife from their Company (DS&A)
Not much information has been released because many of the large sites haven’t posted about this story. The group has taken a hault on all activities to fight for justice, even taking over their instagram and deleting their posts on social media, then posting a photo pleading for help and support in their battle.
(These posts were translated, since I do not speak korean, and were confirmed by many fluent/native speakers)
I also included the more informative post that is attached under the same picture in the comments.
The members age range is from 1992-2001. Majority of members being 1996 and under.
Please spread awareness on this issue. Women aren’t only the victims, and it can happen to anyone in any industry.
The Blood That Ties Us Together - ♡Disclaimer ♡ (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1346199463-the-blood-that-ties-us-together-%E2%99%A1disclaimer-%E2%99%A1?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=Oliverrrrrrrr1846 After being verbally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused for 10 years, Alessia Stevenson finally ended her number one problem. Her stepfather After being taken into custody by her real father, she is forced to live with him and her 6 older brothers, she's brought into a world of secrets, lies and love. They're in the mafia, they own the second biggest mafia in the world. She's the Donna of the most powerful mafia of the time. Only, she knows their secrets. But they don't know her's. And she doesn't plan on letting them in and telling them. Not yet anyway. Can she finally find peace, with her newly found family? Started: 5/6/23 Completed: Just a note that the cover image is not my own image, all credit goes to the owner. Highest Rankings 🏆 gxb - 5 brokenheart - 6 italianmafia - 15 italian - 20 lostmafiaprincess - 1 🏆 peace - 3 family - 6 badass - 1 🏆 assassin - 3 love - 9 abused - 2 together - 4 broken - 3 mafiaprincess - 4 secrets - 1 🏆 sad - 3
brr...that icy cold pain you feel after being used.
- Sequoia Red.