Asexuals - Tumblr Posts

Thank you for this! I'm lucky enough to not have to tell many ppl that I'm bi and when they do know they are very supportive. Biphobia sucks! Everyone pls be careful when telling ppl that you are bisexual or asexual! If it's not safe if you could get in trouble, think about who to tell.

yall would live much happier lives if you would stop to think “is this about me?” before starting pointless shit.

you don’t need to accuse a post about safe sex of being aphobic. someone talking about the struggles of being bi doesn’t need you saying they should be a lesbian instead. if someone talks about a nice thing their dad did they don’t need you replying about shitty men are

so many people around here are so rude and bitter that it almost seems like they’re trolling but they’re not! they’re just horribly self centered

i love qprs!

Queerplatonic Polyamory is great 💗

Queerplatonic LDRs are great 💗

Queerplatonic Throuples are great 💗

Queerplatonic ships are great 💗

Queerplatonic relationships are great 💗

My s/o is a choatic asexual.

Very entertaining people.

Y’know a sexuality that is incredibly slept on?

Chaotic Asexuals.

Like, absolute chaos goblins who just do not care whatsoever.

Examples: Alastor (Hazbin Hotel) Willy Wonka (Charlie and the Chocolate Factory) Sun Wukong (Journey to the West) Others (Let me know in the comments)

“I haven’t lost my virginity cuz I never lose! See ya later sex-haver!”

"we need cops at pride to protect people!" WRONG. ASEXUALS WITH FLAMETHROWERS.

We are gods amongst men!

asexuals (immovable object) Vs porn bots (unstoppable force)

Reblog to equip Asexuals for the invasion of Denmark.

A♠️ for life lol

Like and reblog if you’re asexual

OR if you believe that asexuality is real. I’m trying to prove a point here.

because it's ace week here's something to remember;

when someone comes out to you as ace and your first question is "have you had sex?" and if they say no they haven't and you tell them to try it before coming out as asexual then you obviously don't know what asexuality is. same goes for if you only accept they're asexual if they said they tried sex and they hate it!

asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, there are asexuals who are sexually active and asexuals who aren't. some are sex repulsed, some are sex positive and some are indifferent to it. whether your asexual friend has sex or not isn't any of your business unless of course even talking about it makes them uncomfortable and they ask you to steer clear of the topic.

if your ace friend has had and enjoys sex and your first thought is to ask them if they're still asexual, you're once again not understanding what asexuality is. asexuals can have sex for their partner, because they want kids or any other reason, they can also not have sex because they don't like it, it isn't pleasurable or any other reason. it doesn't make them less ace and you honestly shouldn't be obsessing over their sexuality that much.

lack of sexual attraction doesn't mean lack of sexual arousal.

basically, asking someone asexual whether they've had sex before coming out as ace doesn't say shit about their sexuality and it just tells you whether they like sex or not.

your asexual friend is repulsed by sex? respect that.

your asexual friend is indifferent to sex? respect that.

your asexual friend has sex and/or enjoys it? respect that.

don't. be. acephobic.

Are asexuals a part of the LGBTQ+ community?

Honestly, I don't know. What I do know, is that asexuals can be accepted without a doubt, but they can also get harassed and picked on, and anything in between. My coming out went rather fine, I even did a presentation about it to the whole class, but despite that I often feel left out of certain situations. Some asexuals may be fine without a full support system, they might not figure out they're ace at all, they might think they just don't like sex, they might not know what others feel about it so they think they're straight, they might not even know what asexuality is.

But some asexuals feel left out. They feel misunderstood. Unheard. Weird. Different. Like they are forced to like that kind of stuff. It can brake up relationships. It can mess people up.

If you feel like aces are hurting the community in any way, please let me know, but from what I've seen, aces only want to be accepted. They are not too pushy or act hatred twords any part of the community (of course, I am talking in general, not about specific people).

So before you begin to judge all asexuals about not being harased like the rest of the community might, or not actually needing to be a part of the community, maybe think of those who DO need to feel like they are a part of something, who need to feel accepted, who need to feel like they are not different.

(This also goes out to aro people, but I don't know much about the topic, my apologies)

You know how witches,demons,or whatever ask for your first born child as payment for something?What if you just adopt all your kids?Does it still count as your first born or?Also,what about Asexuals or Aromantics that plan to never have kids?Do they unintentionally break the system?How does it work,I really wanna know!

Intro!!!

"I so badly want to say, 'would you like a cup of tea?' But... You know how it is." - Asgore, Undertale.

Hey guys! It's the Desk of Asexuality here, and this is my intro!

I use she/he/they pronouns, and I'm asexual (if that wasn't already clear, haha)and biromantic! You can call me Luna, Dave, Matthew, or Alto! My main interests are Undertale, Deltarune, the SCP Foundation, and Five Nights at Freddy's!

I'm here to write one-shots and such for my fellow asexuals, as I've noticed that the internet doesn't have much for people like us (and by that I mean almost anything and everything is sexualized). :(

[[This is NOT gate-keeping!! Allosexual people are allowed to read my works and interact with my page!!!]]

I do take requests! Don't ever be afraid to request something or ask me a question! I'm always open for communicating with you guys!

I write:

One-shots

Headcanons

Canon X Reader

Canon X Canon

Platonic

Romantic

Family Figure

Angst (occasionally)

Hurt-Comfort

Fluff

Etc.

I write for:

Undertale (No AUs though, sorry :()

Deltarune

Friday Night Funkin' (Although the only mod I will write for is the Hex mod, as it is the only one I am familiar with :))

Pico's School (A more niche, and quite frankly, controversial game. I will make it clear now that I do not support or condone anything that occurs in the game.)

Five Nights at Freddy's and the books surrounding it.

Gravity Falls

KinitoPET

That's Not My Neighbor

Amphibia

Psychocuties/ПСИХОНЯШКИ (I am aware that this source of media and its creator are considered problematic. The same statement made for Pico's School stands for this as well.)

SCP Foundation (The SCP Foundation is a very extensive universe, and while I love it sooooo much, I'm not familiar with very many characters. The list of characters I'll write for is listed below. The list will hopefully get longer as I do more research :))

Dr. Agatha Rights

Dr. Alto Clef

Professor Kain Pathos Crow (only platonically!)

Dr. Charles Gears

Dr. Jack Bright

Dr. Theron Sherman (If Dr. Sherman has stated that he is uncomfortable about such works being written about his character, let me know, and I'll take him off of my list!)

SCP-035

SCP-049

SCP-166 (only platonically!)

And maybe a few other things I might've forgotten, haha!

Keep in mind that "fanfiction for asexuals" means that asexuality is applied to the reader and the character if it is a Canon X Reader situation. The requester can ask for as much emphasis on asexuality as they wish, but it won't be a huge deal or take up most of the plot. The whole point in this page is to write fanfiction and such with a lack of sexual content for those who are uncomfortable with it, like me, and for people to feel like they're seen, even if just a bit, because I know lots of asexuals out there wish they were represented more.

If I am writing for Canon X Canon, there will simply be a lack of sexual content, because I know that Canon X Reader is what a lot of people might come for and look for an emphasis of asexuality in. Canon X Canon things I write might mention a character being ace here and there, but it won't really be a huge deal.

Also! Most one-shots, headcanons, etc. won't be all colored up like this unless requested for, so don't worry! :) It'll only be like this maybe if I'm just posting something outside of requests, fanfiction, etc.!

I usually write in the third person, and I do not refer to the reader as "you". I apologize if that drives any of you away :(

I hope that my writing can be consistent, and I stay active! Sorry if I do become inactive. TvT

Have a wonderful day!

"To my people, I am a hero... To you? I'm the bad guy!!" - Chaos King, Deltarune.

I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

Sick of my aroace identity being ignored by my friends because I’m in a romantic leaning qpr

Like yes I am aware that they have romantic feelings for me but I do not have those feelings for them

Like I feel strongly towards them and I’m committed to them but I do not feel romantic or sexual attraction to them at all

The only person who doesn’t question my identity is ironically enough my partner who knows I do not have these feelings towards them and has said that if these feelings change they change and if they don’t they don’t like????

I’m aroace this is the label I use like?? Can we not erase aroace identities because someone is in a romantic looking relationship

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