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Y'all, I was thinking about my ocs last night, they an aspec duo, one is demirose and the other aroace. Then something in my head clicked and the term arose came up in my head.

I mean, makes sense, right? Just like in demirose, you take the ro from romance, the se from sexual and add the a for the arose. That could be a new term for aromantic asexuals, right?

✨Arose✨

redraw of a (probably) 2 year old art peice (original on the left)

not great bc i did it really quickly but i still like it

🧡💛🤍🩵💙

im realizing now the arms are also really long lol kinda a vibe tho

A-SPECS RISE UP!!! GO FOR THE THROATS!!

I feel like I’ve just been knighted

A-SPECS RISE UP!!! GO FOR THE THROATS!!

"love is love" until it doesn't include sex

"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex repulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

Remember to advocate for Asexuals and Aromantics this pride. Because we are also here, and we are also queer

Aroace!!

An Aspec post reaching even Allos, and so much confusion caused by misinterpretation of the term 'Asexual'.

No, we are not plants.

Yes, we might procreate by splitting in half.

No, we will not tell you how exactly.

some aces are virgins

some aces love sex

some aces have sexual trauma

some aces don't want sex

some aces masturbate

some aces are teenagers

some aces are in their seventies

some aces dress modestly

some aces wear skimpy clothes

some aces only date aces

some aces don't want romance

and we're all valid : )

EDIT: EVERYONE THAT'S HAVING DISCOURSE IN THE NOTES WILL BE BLOCKED IF YOU'RE BEING AN ASS

Edit edit: Anyone that's confused about how asexuals could love/enjoy/want sex can go read this

Fun Fact: My family thought i had super strong feelings about romance/was a hopeless romantic becourse i hid everytime a romantic / sexual scene came in series.

So when i (partially) came out, i had to explain that No, i was just very disturbed when these people randomly started to find each other attractive?? Which is why i hid under a blanket every time charad kissed, flirted etc.

I also tend to smile like a nervous Joker when these scenes start, which apparently does not help my case.

I love singing love songs as aroace bc I will ALWAYS sing them w more passion than anyone else in the room (unrelated?) and ppl think i have a Romeo and Juliet (not rlly abt love but yk) kind of love story

I just made my first Agender Pride Bracelet!

I was a little worried at first since my bracelet was very short with only the flags colour & pronouns, and thought about what elements to add. I coudn't think of anything, an became uncomfortable fast, thinking: 'the element has to be about your gender (identity), you can't just add random stuff.

And then I thought 'fuck it, its my fucking bracelet about me i want it to be pretty

by the time it was finished, i realised that that was the best thing i could have done.

This bracelet was never made to show people my gender, but my lack thereof.

Which is why adding elements defined by me and my interests was so fucking satisfying. This bracelet is about me.

(The Light Blue Bead is for my favourite Album, 'The good Witch' by Maisie Peters

The Mirrorball Bead is for Taylor Swifts Song 'Mirrorball', and what it means to me.

The White/Orange Bead is for my emotional state, and happyness.

The White Bead reminds me of a Jewlery pice a person dear to me frequently wears.

The Star Bead stands for everything i like about me.

The lilac one stands for lavender, my favourite flower, which is a connection between my childhood me and the me now.)

This bracelet is about me, and that knowledge felt so empowering.

I just made my first Agender Pride Bracelet!

War.

Call to Arms

Bots have returned to the asexual tags. You know what this means.

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do

My take on the aspec flag!

[PT: My take on the aspec flag! /End PT]

[ID: A flag with 6 horizontal stripes, divided in four sections by a white compass rose in the middle of the flag. Each section has 3 stripes that form a gradient that gets darker towards the middle of the flag. Clockwise, the sections are in red, green, blue, and purple hues. /End ID]

The 'main' aspec flag only includes the ace and aro spectrums, and I didn't find any inclusive flag I liked, so I made my own. This flag focuses on the diversity of the a-spectrum.

Symbolism:

None of the colors have meaning on their own. The dark purple and dark green are taken from the most used flag, just a little fun fact.

The colors are separated in different sections because the a-spectrum is vast and individuals within it can have wildly different experiences while still being under the same umbrella.

But they're also grouped in gradients, because multiple different 'colors', or individuals, can still belong in the same space and have similar experiences!

The white compass rose is a tribute to the most used flag; it still represents how different individuals feel or don't feel attraction.

However, I also kept it white because for some, white is the absence of hue or saturation, representing a lack of attraction, and for others, it's what you get when you combine every color, representing wholeness even without 'traditional' colors.