Trans Problems - Tumblr Posts
choosing a new name sucks. why cant i legally just be [REDACTED]
choosing a new name sucks. why cant i legally just be [REDACTED]
Cramps: Her me out...
What if...
You frow up
Body: I no no wanna
Cramps: but... feel better possibly
Body: Here me out, what if you perish
Cramps:
Brain: both of you shut up I'm having a mental crisis on why I'm having feminine problems as a guy
Body and Cramps: you're trans we get it and we support
But also fuck you how about we annoy you for fun to distract from our pain? ;D
Brain:
Gods
Why do I exist
Like seriously why can't I be a blob of ✨testosterone✨
guys i have a confession , as a trans guy i HATE headcannoning my fave characters as trans or making trans ocs because it reminds me of myself and it makes me dysphoric for some reason 😬 idk maybe i just have internal transphobia yikes
lol mood
My mom: I’m so progressive, I have no problem w gay people (direct quote)
*two hours later*
Casually using the f slur to talk abt tv characters & saying it’s okay ‘cause she’s in her own home
My mom yesterday: I accept you, I use your correct pronouns
Today: YOU’RE A SHE. YOU’RE A GIRL!!
:/ like, bro... She brags about being an ally and well yeah...
I'm agender and I use they/them pronouns
the urge to grow my hair out long is so intense rn bc of Hua Cheng and Xie Lian but I WOULD NOT PASS in any way shape or form
A convo my mom and grandma had pissed me off so I made this thing lol. screenshot to edit
being a trans guy with a feminine face is actually so annoying
Can y’all stop acting like using it/it’s pronouns for people who WANT to use them is horrible?
I get it, you feel like it/it’s pronouns are dehumanizing, trust me, I know, you’re like the 99th person to say this to me
And I see this EVERY TIME when people say anything about using it/it’s pronouns,
👏just👏use👏people’s👏pronouns👏
End of story
Does anyone else ever like
Physically flinch whenever they see their deadname? It doesn't matter if it's differently spelled, it's an instant recoil and panicked scroll for me lmfao
Today, that one "VeRy BaDaSs" girl called me a "not-enough-woman".
Well, if in my country I couldn't be arrested for that, I would probably shout at her YEAH I'M A TRANSMASC, NOW WHAT??? SUCK IT UP AND SHUT UP, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!11!1!!!1
but I can't. because I live in a country where lgbtquia+ is a nono move. and I don't wanna get bailed for my gender yet.
[P.S. Dear FBR, please don't arrest me for saying that-]
And yeah, before you're gonna tell me that I should just move from this country, WELL I CAN'T DO THAT YET, I DON'T HAVE CASH OR STABLE JOB FOR THAT YET, SO MOVING AWAY IS A NONO RIGHT NOW. If I had those guaranteed, then I would 100% move already despite everything, lol. But rn I need to get a degree and at least some savings.
Ughhheaaurrghh it's hard to be trans when you're in a country where it's thought to be wrong or considered as a mental sickness pls let me just exist without constantly deadnaming and mispronouncing myself just to fit into your world view
I'm starting T in a couple days and have been experimenting with packing, and...
From a sensory perspective it's SO NICE and weirdly soothing
But packing outside the house while I'm still pre-T, holy fuck is my washroom anxiety through the fucking roof.
Like last night I was nearly in tears because I took my husband to the theater to celebrate our anniversary and a bunch of lazy straight people were lining up for the TWO all gender washrooms instead of walking downstairs, and they were all giving me funny looks as the only visibly trans person waiting to pee.
And then an usher came over and was reminding people that there are multi stall washrooms downstairs and most of the straight people decamped except for the lazy Boomer Karen in front of me who kept looking at me because now it was very obvious WHY I was waiting.
So now I'm crying in my kitchen because my husband wants us to go to the pool and I honestly wish I didn't ever have to think about gendered washrooms / change rooms again.
It came to me in a dream
My uterus is haunted
Hey pals
It's taken me a few days to write this, I'm really nervous about asking for this. But there's just no way I can afford top surgery, especially right now when I haven't been able to find a job and my insurance won't cover my hrt. My goal is to get $10K, but honestly any amount is a blessing.
Any amount you're willing to give will help so much, and I'm willing to do art requests in exchange for donations. If you can't donate, please reblog
Trans rant
for pride month here is my experience of the hard parts of being trans I’ll have to post a positive experience to balance out karma lol just feeling silly rn
because despite what many people think for me it’s not my body, or how I perceive/see myself
its know how others perceive me
it’s knowing that some people will only ever see me as my deadname
it’s that I have lost a lot of romantic options because of something I didn’t choose and sometimes don’t even want
it’s that no matter how much I learn to love myself and accept this part of myself there are people who don’t know me and hate me or want me dead for it
That’s the hardest part for me