Grow Up - Tumblr Posts
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"Let's go back,
in time and space,
to a happier
period with a
smaller face.
Waking up in
the morning
with the sun
rising without
a warning.
Oh so bright-
eyed we were,
so naive and
very unsure.
A simpler time
in life, it was,
without the
rush, without
the buzz."
-EL
Okay, I'm gonna be honest here. I read somewhere that some "fans" on Koreaboo are calling Chen selfish and telling him to leave the group????? Like???? Bitch??? What?????? His vocals are on point, he's still hot, he still gives fanservice and awesome dances, like, why the fuck are people complaining and being so blatantly rude about him being married???? Did EXO-L expect him to be single forever???? He's an idol for Christs sake. The most any of us see of him is during fanmeets, performances, and over a fucking computer screen. So WHAT if he's married???? HE'S STILL OUR AWESOME CHEN, MAIN VOCAL AND VISUAL KING!!!! HE'S NOT OUR BOYFRIEND!!!! Like hell, the man's ten years older than me and people who should be adults are acting like jealous teenagers who can't keep their opinions to themselves! Just saying. Also can his wife like, make a fan account somewhere and tell us dumb kid and chen stories....like....pls.....writing material....yes.
To any and all fanfic writers
If I see that your fic was written by Ai
I am 100% not reading your fic
Sorry, not sorry.
"You're doing good. If it gets too hard, don't worry I will run with you."
- Grow Up (잘하고 있어)
"You are the one who decides the end"
잘 하고 있어 (Grow up) (technically it's "Doing well" but the official english title is grow up shshhs)
Seriously hot take as someone who’s probably old enough to be a parent of you, system hopping is and was and always has been for RAMCOA SYSTEMS
Sincerely a RAMCOA System dx before the internet existed and it was used back then. Take your fake ass Endo crap and stop talking about things you know nothing about!
Semi hot take but I really wish anti endos would stop taking terms made by the endo community and claiming they were originally ramcoa terms just as a gotcha. This has happened twice both with the terms system hopping and side systems both are endo created terms but are now being claimed that they were originally ramcoa terms probably to make the endo community look bad. Like I get the endo community has some problems with taking terms and shit but we can’t just start making stuff up now.
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So sick of this, oh my god—
Let trans women play! I guarantee you’ll survive!
Ignoring the evidence that there isn’t even much of an advantage if at all and that there are actually a number of disadvantages for trans women, I hate to break it to you; sports have never been fair.
There’s always been a taller guy in basketball, a smaller woman in gymnastics, hell, Michael Phelps has a million advantages on his competition. People have never once cared! These things are celebrated for cis people!
If you cared so much about equality in sports, make sure all the basketball players all the same height. If you cared so much about women’s sports, increase pay and improve treatment of athletes. If you cared about women at all, pay them equally and get your legislation off their bodies.
You don’t care. You just want to be transphobic.
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Kpop & Tarot
☁️this is more so a rant because i’m sick of a lot of kpop stans honestly. especially, in regards to tarot, and how stans love to either, hyper-glorify kpop idols & the industry, and hypo-glorify ?? ☁️
first of all, tarot, was created to be a SELF divination tool. to gain insight into your own life. any respectable and responsible human being wouldn’t do readings on someone else, unless that person asked them to do so.
reading upon someone’s energy that you don’t have permission to, isn’t only invasive and disrespectful, it also leaves doors open for lots and LOTS of bias… especially with celebrities. tarot will never give you a definite answer upon something. again, it’s all about energy.
*****any true tarot reader, would NEVER read upon someone they don’t have permission to*****
tarot is based upon energy. and when you don’t have direct contact with someone, you don’t truly know their energy. which again, leaves room for bias’. i cannot state this enough
i’ve seen people glorify kpop idols and the industry as if no idol can do wrong. that they’re all amazing people, and nothing could go wrong in the industry.
yet, i’ve ALSO seen people act as if everyone is vile. as if everyone is bigoted, immature, and disrespectful. i’ve seen “tarot readers” say that a certain idol abused someone, or that they’ve cheated on their partners, or that a friendship within a group isn’t a real friendship. etc. and i’ve seen fans comment things like “this makes me extremely sad and i’m so surprised that ___ would be like this/do this!! i don’t know if i can be their fan anymore :(“
which is literally so ABSURD to me ??
!AT THE END OF THE DAY!
you don’t know kpop idols. you NEVER will. tarot isn’t going to give you answers to their lives & you shouldn’t even be wondering about idols personal lives anyway (?) it’s super weird.
⚪️Kpop idols are normal human beings! i don’t undertand why this is so hard for some of you to grasp. there are genuine good people who are idols, and then there are some who aren’t. there are genuine friendships, and also, there are some that aren’t. you’ll never really know unless they WANT to let you know⚪️
if some of you stopped being STANS and just normal FANS who watches/listens to the content of the groups you like, you wouldn’t resort to such weird behavior & wouldn’t be weirdly let down over a fake tarot reader saying your fav idol is an abuser/fake etc. ?? when they don’t know and are literally projecting….
some of you are weirdos & need to gain a lot of self awareness
🕯️anyways, i wish you all nothing but delight and divinity🕯️
RMRM
Brad made an adjustment in hopes Tumblr wouldn’t ban him once again. This was getting old and so was the Interwebs.
Just how long was the Webnets going to take to mature? Brad was born AFTER the internet and HE knows how to handle sex.
Well, please allow us to say this. As a species we’re still new to this level of consciousness and apparently it doesn’t hit everyone at the same time. Why don’t we just let that in and let it do whatever it does. Ok? Ok.
“It’s alright, we just need to go through it and grow, don’t cry If you fall back a little, just rest You’re doing fine when things are hard I’ll run with you, don’t worry” - Grow up
Until we meet again, Woojin !! 🤗 🐻 🌸 🌻
I hope Woojin is and will be healthy and happy from now on and I hope everybody will be okay. Everybody, take your time and come back stronger. I love you all 💙 💙
When I grow up...
there is still a wonderful place in my heart...
fucking unnecessary but apparently required reminder that a dicc pic without consent (unsolicited) is sexual assault
Don’t fucking do this goddamnit
I hate this sentiment that they/them is inherently neutral and good and that everyone should be okay with being called it. actually they are still pronouns and you are still making assumptions about someone by using them... maybe YOU like them, some of us have fought very hard not to be seen as genderless
Hey, TSP fandom, this shit is not okay
There was some really toxic shit going down with this Stanley poll where the artist of the cat Stanley was being treated really fucking badly by commenters because of the design it was going up against.
https://www.tumblr.com/peripalz/712786493347921922/the-moment-youve-all-been-waiting-for-the?source=share
Which has lead to the artist feeling the need to post stuff like this,
This is exactly the kind of toxic fandom behavior that’s going to drive people away and its not acceptable to act this way just because its a design you don’t like or because you’re trying to tie it into this idea that the fandom has too many skinny designs. Last I checked, Cat Stanley is a pretty unique design all of its own even if it doesn’t fall into any certain human body standard. Should it maybe have not been pitted against that design in the poll, sure?
And I know this post will be looked at as trying to silence that critique (plot twist, I ain’t thin, I hate that skinny is the default and that there is a lack of positive representation for fat people in media, and I do want more diverse designs in the fandom, so try to avoid attributing things to my character that aren’t there), but this is about not bulling other fan artists because they made a design you don’t like or think its proof of something against women, POC, fat designs.
Probably gonna get shit for calling this out, but I refuse to sit here and say nothing about the bullying going on. I love how chill this fandom tends to be and how accepting they are of everyone’s different interpretations and I hate seeing shit like this happen because it is only going to perpetuate negativity, stifle creativity, and drive people away because they’d rather not deal with a toxic fandom. Once again there SHOULD be more diverse designs in the fandom and bringing awareness to artists of this to get them to branch out from common design tropes and body types is perfectly justified, but that should not devolve into toxic behavior against artists.