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Is he fraysexual and frayromantic?

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Reasoning: I'm projecting 😓

Fraysexual meaning: Sexual attraction that disappears after an emotional bond is formed

Frayromantic meaning: Romantic attraction that disappears after an emotional bond is formed.

Is he fraysexual and frayromantic?

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Reasoning: Jasper is a hormonal teenager doing hormonal teenager things. He's crushing hard on several girls and severely sexually attracted to them UNTIL he gets friends with them and then he's like "she's like a sister to me :)" "idk what's up with me but i suddenly don't find her all that hot anymore. we're good friends so why does she resent me for not wanting to fuck her anymore??" "okay so I know I said she was hot af and right now she's basically asking me to date and/or have sex but I couldn't be LESS attracted to her if I tried after this emotionally charged conversation we just had"

Frayromantic & fraysexual meaning:

Fraysexual meaning: Sexual attraction that disappears after an emotional bond is formed

Frayromantic meaning: Romantic attraction that disappears after an emotional bond is formed.

I didn't come out as Aegosexual/romantic for two reasons.

(the bigger part) I didn't know about aegosexuality/romanticism when I came out and

I don't think they fully understand asexuality/aromanticism, and I didn't want to confuse them more with what (in my opinion) is one of the more confusing microlabels

I'm thankful that they did accept me, but still, I don't want to try to explain that I do feel sexual/romantic attraction, but I can't be a part of the relationship in a sexual/romantic way.

Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!

~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur

; I haven't seen an explanation quite so good omfg !?? /gen ( I'm a Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks kinda guy, maybe Fruity Pebbles. What about y'all ? /genq /nf

Asexual labels explained using cereal

You are in a kitchen, opening a pantry door. It contains every brand of cereal in existence.

Libido- How hungry you are

Sexual Attraction- How appealing each cereal is to you

Sex-Repulsed- The mere act of eating cereal disturbs you. You flee the kitchen to watch Netflix instead.

Sex-Indifferent- Someone brings you a bowl of cereal. Even though you don’t crave cereal, you decide to eat some anyway. Maybe because you want the person to feel happy you’re eating something they provided you. Maybe you’re just that hungry. Regardless, you’re fine with eating it since it’s already there. If it wasn’t, you wouldn’t care either.

Sex-favorable- Though you don’t particularly crave cereal, the act of eating cereal is enjoyable. So enjoyable, you go through the trouble of picking a brand to eat.

Asexual with low/no libido- You are rarely hungry, and none of the cereal appeals to you.

Asexual with average/high libido- You are often hungry, but none of the cereal appeals to you.

Aegosexual-  Eating cereal sounds fun in theory but not in practice. You certainly have no interest in eating cereal yourself. You’d rather fantasize about other people eating cereal, thankyouverymuch. 

Gray Asexual- You only like Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks. And maybe Fruity Pebbles but you’re not quite sure.

Demisexual- You see a box of Trix. You are familiar with the rabbit on the box, due to the commercials you’ve seen. You always sympathized with the rabbit for never getting any Trix. There are things in life you’ve wanted but have never gotten. You feel a bond with the rabbit. Suddenly that box of Trix looks tasty.

Fraysexual- You see a box of Cocoa Puffs. You have never heard of Cocoa Puffs in your life. But something about it is oh-so-appealing. You pour yourself a bowl. As you start to eat, you catch a commercial for Cocoa Puffs on TV. You now know what the mascot on the box is like. You lose interest in Cocoa Puffs for reasons you cannot explain.

Lithosexual- You notice a box of Fruit Loops. You feel an urge to eat it. Toucan Sam comes to life and asks you to eat them. This makes you uncomfortable, so you leave to watch Netflix with the sex-repulsed ace.

Reciprosexual- You have no interest in any of the cereal. Not even that box of Frosted Flakes. But Tony the Tiger shows up wanting you to eat the Frosted Flakes. Now that he wants you to eat Frosted Flakes, you want to eat Frosted Flakes. 

Cupiosexual- You want to eat cereal, but none of the cereal looks appealing. Maybe if you grab that box of Corn Flakes, it’ll become appealing to you later? It’s happened to other people. You consider grabbing that box of Corn Flakes, just in case.

Orchidsexual- Some of the cereal looks appealing, but you have no interest in eating cereal.

Aceflux- None of the cereal looks good, so you close the pantry. A few days later, you decide to open the pantry again. Now, some of those brands look appetizing. You check the pantry again the next day. None of the cereal looks good anymore.

Quoisexual- You have no idea if you like a cereal because you want to eat it, or if you just think the box art is pretty. Does liking the box art count as wanting to eat it? Do you just like the mascot? Does liking the mascot count as wanting to eat the cereal? After reading everything I’ve written, you are still confused. You bang your head against the pantry in frustration.

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Wow Pride!

Got a big project idea for pride this year so here’s a big masterpost to help you navigate it if you get lost. I’m posting one wolf a day so be sure to check back sometime.

They’ll be in a bit of a weird order but you will probably get why after the second goes up ;)

Based all my wolves off sci-fantasy concept for a bit of fun. Sure it doesn’t make sense that these wolves could use these weapons, but it sure looks cool so don’t worry about it.   Have fun!

✨ Everything I’ve done for Pride baby~ ✨

A-Spec Pride Wolves

A-Spec Wolf   --   Aro-spectrum / Ace-spectrum

Aro Wolf   --   Aromantic / Greyromantic / Demiromantic

Ace Wolf   --   Asexual / Greysexual / Demisexual

AroAce Wolf   --   Aromantic-Asexual

Agen Wolf   --   Agender

Fray Wolf   --   Frayromantic / Fraysexual

Flux Wolf   --   Aroflux / Aceflux

Litho Wolf   --   Lithoromantic / Lithrosexual

Recipro Wolf   --   Recipromantic / Reciprosexual

Full Pride Wolves Illustration

Extra Bits

Social Media Banners / Headers

Phone Backgrounds / Wallpapers

Character Sheets

Plus use coupon code PRIDEWOLVES for 10% off everything in store on orders £10 and above   --   Only till the end of June

A-Spectrum Pride Wolves A3 Art Prints

A-Spec Wolves on Redbubble

All my previous pride merchandise is now 15% off so grab some!

Aro/Ace Wolf Dance Clear Charms

Aro/Ace Wolf Flower Party Pink Charms

Aro/Ace Wolf Flower Party A4 Art Print

Stay prideful!!!

Fray wolf for the Frayromantics and Fraysexuals.

Pretty casual in the trees with their staff and jetpack. They look pretty smug up there, wish that were me.

Gotta say this is one of my favorite colour schemes, however that may be because it’s so different from everything else.

Look at the other wolves if you wanna

✨Everything Pride✨  -  Masterpost ｜Aspec｜Aro｜Ace｜AroAce｜Agen｜Flux｜Litho｜Recipro｜Full

Prints Available on my store if you’re so inclined, check the masterpost!

Here’s all my Aspec pride prints together. Took so much jigging to get all of it to match up but I think it came out looking amazing.

I wanted to do something really special for pride this year that I would be really proud of, so I hope you all like them as much as me!

✨Everything Pride✨  -  Masterpost ｜Aspec｜Aro｜Ace｜AroAce｜Agen｜Fray｜Flux｜Litho｜Recipro

Prints Available on my store if you’re so inclined, check the masterpost!

Welcome to L’étoile Blanche!

Happy Pride Everyone!!! This is the 5th year I'll be celebrating aspec identities during pride month so I'm very excited!

I've got quite a few pride illustrations planned, so let's see how many I manage to get through before the month is up (^～^;)ゞ

You can spot all my aspec wolves working arount the café so check back for updates where I can introduce them all to you (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

Pride Art Tag - Challenge｜Poster ｜Aroace｜Aro｜Ace｜Aspec｜Agen｜Flux｜Fray｜Litho｜Recip

So, What Will Your Order be Today?

Come have a drink with the Frayromantic/Fraysexual Bartender! They'll listen to everything you have to say, even after a few glasses ヾ(・ω・)メ(・ω・)ノ

The fray flag has to be another favourite of mine, it's so simple but the colours work together so nicely. Plus this outfit design was also one of the most fun to design ^~^

Fray: Someone who experience romantic/sexual attraction to people they don't know well. However as an emotional connection forms the attraction fades.

Pride Art Tag - Challenge｜Poster ｜Aroace｜Aro｜Ace｜Aspec｜Agen｜Flux｜Fray｜Litho｜Recipro

Finished 2023 outfits for all my pride wolves!

All of the wolves and outfits are free-to-use if you're so inclined ;)

Whoooo! New A-spec Wolf designs!!

There's so many things I want to finish up recently, but as pride month is coming closer I thought I'd redesign all my A-spec wolves in preparation.

Practising differentiating characters from one another using face and body shape, I was pretty successful! I used different wolf species to guide the basic shape of each of them.

I tried matching the old designs colours with the wolf species. Maybe I’ll swap what body type/species they all are later, I do love changing my mind! p:

Size comparisons of all the wolves:

Recipro looks so small next to Agen ( ɵ̥̥ ﹏ ɵ̥̥)

Bonus wolf designs for Aroflux, Aceflux, Recipromantic, Reciprosexual

In honor of asexual awareness week I have made more jars!! All ace identities are valid and deserve to be seen. I love my ace fam 🖤🤍💜

Asexual

Aroace | Gray Ace | Fraysexual

Lithosexual | Reciprosexual | Cupiosexual

Orchidsexual | Aceflux | Quoisexual

Some of the colors aren’t the best, but I did what I could. If anyone has any requests for other ace spec flags in jars for this week, shoot me an ask! My only limits are complexity - I’m truly sorry to my demi siblings. Triangles are too hard.

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 1O ]

Free to use, just credit if you can!

Don't see yours? Check the #lgbtcatpfp !

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Is there a way I can beat the shit out of someone on the internet? I just came across an aphobe-

Question 1 - About 4 or 5 years.

Question 2 - I don’t identify with any micro labels.

Question 3 - No, but I really want to…

Question 4 - Only to my mother, little siblings, and friends.

Question 5 - I’m thinking that I might be? I’m not entirely sure.

Question 6 - I’m Nonbinary, but more specifically, I’m a Demigirl.

Question 7 - Sleep, Cake, Garlic, and Dragons.

Question 8 - Asexuals are just Innocent, and All Aces are also Aro.

Question 9 - Both please-

Question 10 - Once I learned what Asexual meant, it just slapped me in the face.

Question 11 - Knowing that there was a word for me to describe what I feel, and knowing that I’m not the only one, and I’m not a machine for feeling the way I feel.

Question 12 - People assume that I’m innocent.

Question 13 - YES.

Question 14 - I want to.

Question 15 - Ace people can still feel romantic attraction, we are not innocent, Aces are not broken, and we do belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.

Question 16 - I think some of my friends are really nice to look at, I guess I’m attracted to the way they look, would that be aesthetic attraction? Maybe Biaesthetic? Idk-

Question 17 - I’m sex-indifferent.

Question 18 - Luz (The Owl House), Octavia (Helluva Boss), Alastor (Hazbin Hotel), Twilight Sparkle (My Little Pony), Frisk, Sans, Papyrus & Mettaton (Undertale), Susie (Deltarune), Dewey, Violet, & Boyd (Ducktales), Cole & Zane (Ninjago), Ice Bear (We Bare Bears), Peridot & Pearl (Steven Universe), Marcy (Amphibia), & Entrapta (She Ra)

in honor of ace week, here's an ace ask game I made! feel free to reblog, but don't repost without credit :)

🖤 how long have you known you're asexual?

🤍 what ace-spec microlabels, if any, do you identify as?

💜 do you own an asexual flag?

🖤 are you out as asexual irl?

🤍 are you on the aromantic spectrum?

💜 are you transgender or on the nonbinary spectrum?

🖤 what's your favorite asexual stereotype?

🤍 what's your least favorite asexual stereotype?

💜 cake or garlic bread?

🖤 what made you realize that you were asexual?

🤍 what's your favorite part about being asexual?

💜 what's your least favorite part about being asexual?

🖤 do you like the asexual flag?

🤍 do you wear an ace ring?

💜 if you could tell allosexual people one thing, what would it be?

🖤 do you experience aesthetic attraction?

🤍 are you sex-favorable, sex-repulsed, or sex-indifferent?

💜 what fictional characters do you headcanon as asexual?

There’s more-

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Transgender

Demiflux

Genderfluid

Demigender

Deminonbinary

Gendervoid

Queer

Fraysexual

Frayromantic

I made pride flags with Octavia’s color palette.

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Asexual

Pansexual

Nonbinary

Demigirl

Librafeminine

Demiboy

Libramasculine

A couple of more flags

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Sapphic

Queerplatonic flag 1

Queerplatonic flag 2

Bisexual

Intersex

I made pride flags with Octavia’s color palette.

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Asexual

Pansexual

Nonbinary

Demigirl

Librafeminine

Demiboy

Libramasculine

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Graysexual

Demisexual

Acespike

Aegosexual

Cupiosexual

I made pride flags with Octavia’s color palette.

FLAGS IN ORDER:

Asexual

Pansexual

Nonbinary

Demigirl

Librafeminine

Demiboy

Libramasculine