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| quelques affirmations à utiliser pour peaufiner votre self concept ou quand vous avez une baisse de confiance en vous |
💫j’ai un self concept parfait
🤍mon self concept est excellent
🌸je manifeste toujours facilement et instantanément
💫j’ai tout ce que je considère idéal
🤍je me priorise constamment
🌸je peux manifester TOUT ce que je veux
💫j’ai confiance en ma capacité de manifester ce que je veux
🤍ma 3D se conforme toujours à ma 4D
🌸je ne doute jamais du fait que je vais avoir mes désirs
tout va toujours dans mon sens
god, nothing is loud enough to stop the voices screaming
The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul .
nah b/c why am I so sad rn
like I genuinely feel like I'm gonna KMS or something anyways wish me luck 😨😨😨
Paradoja
¿Alguien conoce el significado de esta palabra? Es probable que sean pocos los que utilicen este termino con propiedad, pero la gran mayoría nos vemos enfrentados a paradojas todo el tiempo, aún no pareciéndolo. Paradoja es una contradicción, dos pensamientos opuestos enfrentados en un mismo concepto, como por ejemplo, un judío nazi.
Y sin querer ser tan extremo, vemos paradojas en muchas acciones sociales y que nos afectan a todos, como comerciales de navidad que abalan la comunión familiar y el amor fraternal, pero terminan con un gigantesco descuento del regalo más caro que hay en la tienda; o más contemporáneo todavía, miles de personas protestando y reclamando en redes sociales por un presidente que ellos mismos como nación eligieron. Son muchas las personas "paradójicas" que te hacen creer que piensan de una manera y luego dicen o hacen algo que demuestra todo lo contrario, un fenómeno sicológico que llamo: El mal de la Chimoltrufia, cuyo lema era "yo como digo una cosa, digo otra". Y es curioso que un personaje tan divertido pueda generar un patrón de comportamiento tan nocivo.
Para demostrar este "mal" cito una situación bastante rara a mi parecer. En un grupo de trabajo en el que participaba, llego una chica a prueba, cuyo color de piel resaltaba por lo oscuro. Habrá trabajado un par de días y luego se retiro, argumentando a un compañero que encontró un lugar donde le pagaban mejor. Este último, comentando la situación al grupo, dijo que seguramente se había ido a trabajar a un café topless. Desde mi más sincera ingenuidad, y no entiendo el porque de las risas, pregunto si ella le había mencionado que su nuevo trabajo sería ese, a lo que me responden que no, era sólo una suposición hecha por su color de piel, y siendo más textual, me dijeron que: "seguramente se fue a topless, si hay están plagados de negras". Para poner las cosas en orden, pregunte si ellos, desde su punto de vista, el café topless era el lugar de trabajo más indicado para una persona de color, a lo que la respuesta unísona fue un sí; les respondí que entonces yo, una persona blanca, desde mi punto de vista el mejor lugar para trabajo para mis compañeros latinos era el narcotráfico. La paradoja de esta historia es que, el mismo comentario hecho por una persona blanca es más racista que el hecho por una latina, ya que existe una valoración diferente según tu color de piel para hablar de racismo. ¿Raro no?
Son muchas las veces que uno puede escuchar un comentario despectivo sobre un inmigrante de piel oscura de personas, que paradójicamente, consideran el racismo como un acto despreciable. Así como mujeres feministas que no dejan a su hijo varón aprender a cocinar o gente budista en ventas telefónicas. La humanidad como tal ya tiene desafíos tan grandes por desarrollar, como para inventarse más dificultades de convivencia entre nosotros mismo.
Y ello nos lleva a la última paradoja de la cual deberíamos librarnos, el de estar en una vida tan sencilla, pero también en sistema de vida terriblemente complicado.
In my head there are multiple people.. those people being me.
(Most of these characters are introduced in this animation )
Just learnt about hater recently
Turns out that that dude is also this
But I refused to think I was the one who hated myself sso yeah
Pluto in the 3rd House
The 3rd House can often represent many things, but what it represents at its core is discovery and numerous interactions that can develop and culminate to a solid foundation found later in the 4th House. How one learns and thinks is found in this house. The movement of thoughts and words are represented by this house, often playing out in open, versatile environments such as early school settings (up to high school) and our siblings.
When Pluto is in the 3rd House, terrifying, but also transformative power is found in the native’s mind. If the native isn’t quickly aware of this mental power, they will only be reminded for a few times. The negative manifestations that often come with this placement creates great consequences and the native will soon learn of the mental power they possess. Due to this, many individuals with this placement do not express their thoughts very often. Many of these individuals are aware of the destruction they can create with just a few words.
However, while they are capable of causing utter destruction with their words, they are perfectly capable of healing themselves and others if they use their words positively. There is a powerful, respectful, but also feared sharpness of the mind. Those with this placement are capable of weaving through the confusing and murky undercurrents of verbal and body language, often understanding the hidden psychological motives of others for better or worse. Individuals with this placement are naturally detectives, their minds often madly searching, but also critically analyzing the information they find.
These individuals often excel in managing secrets. Not only can they keep secrets, but they can also release just enough information to satisfy another party, but keep enough information to keep themselves safe. However, having this skill can often make these individuals feared, for nobody really knows what these individuals keep inside their heads. Pluto in the 3rd natives are also capable of being destructive bullies. They can quickly detect the sensitive spots of their peers to their advantage, easily hurting others where it hurts the most.
In school, the native can often put on a public facade that is completely different from their mind. Natives can often say a few trivial phrases to others uncomfortably for the sake of hiding what they’re really thinking. Due to this, many of their peers will often think that these natives are shallow or even unintelligent. This can often result in the native often feeling intellectually misunderstood, which can result in volatile verbal outbursts that can shock others. Deep down, natives with this placement seek for intimacy and deep relationships with their peers.
Their mental processes can often be mysterious to their teachers. Due to this, natives with this placement would much rather learn by themselves. Natives with this placement often become very intimate with the way they learn. However, natives with this placement can also create an intimate relationship with their instructors if there is a great understanding. Often, effective teachers can transform the native’s mind, which can enhance their learning for the better. These students are also capable of causing unsettling power struggles with their teachers, for they are always critically questioning the educational content they are receiving.
The learning process of those with Pluto in the 3rd can be very extreme, which is why many with this placement often like to learn in solitude. There is often a feeling of thinking that nobody understands their way of learning, so they take complete charge of their learning. Pluto in the 3rd natives are passionate learners, often obsessively learning nonstop about subjects they are attracted to. Inspiration comes at the most random times, often consuming their minds.
However, destructive thoughts are just as capable of intruding the native’s mind. These thoughts are often so disturbing to the point where the native can see their own mind to be dangerous. They often question how and why they’re able to create such horrifying thoughts with ease. These natives can mentally twist a mundane, daily activity to something truly horrifying in their minds. While these thoughts are terrifying, they also highlight the inner darkness these natives possess in their minds, whether they want to accept it or not.
If the native has a sibling, the relationship will truly be complex. There will be parts of the relationships both the native and sibling can struggle to understand. The native has the potential to develop a very strong, intimate relationship with their sibling that can bring a secure upbringing. However, the native also has the potential to create a destructive relationship that can often add an unsettling volatility to their upbringing. There is often a power struggle between the native and the sibling. Siblings can also be secretive with the native, and perhaps even manipulative. Natives with this placement can also be bullied by their siblings. Pluto can often bring transformation, the native often loving their sibling one moment, and hating them the next.
Pluto in the 3rd is a placement that enables the native mental strength. However, this strength can often be used to help but also to destroy those around them. Individuals with this placement can often struggle to release their deepest thoughts, often fearing that they’ll reveal their vulnerabilities or hurt their loved ones. Natives often need to associate with people who aren’t judgmental and are able to ride on the same mental wavelength as them. Patience is needed with individuals for this placement, for it takes time for these individuals to mentally expose themselves in a healthy, helpful way.
Yet I will go on with my futile efforts. I want to be a poet, so I will try my best <3
Bring Me Home The world is too busy fighting off their demons. Always at war with their flaws, always running away from what scares them.
Poems and quotes my therapist would hate - A kind life (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1431653080-poems-and-quotes-my-therapist-would-hate-a-kind?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=Secretside_of_bree I've always been fond of poetic and quotes because people were better at putting my emotions in words than me. As I matured I realized that it's never too late to become one of those people. So I became them. And if I cannot be better than them, I will become so much worse- Jude Duarte.
Yall should like......... read my poems *wink wink*
aff, eu tô cansado, Tenho 17 anos, sou bi, e não consigo sentir amor/paixão por ninguém, não é que eu não quero ou que eu me fecho e me bloqueio para isso, eu quero muito voltar a sentir aquele calor, a felicidade, aquela paz, a quietude e felicidade, o sentimento de poder passar o dia inteiro com a pessoa e não enjoar ou se tediar, mas não consigo não importa quem, eu até estava me forçando a sentir isso por algumas pessoas, mas não representava nada, e só me fazia sentir pior, como se fosse culpa minha,que estou com algum problema, algum defeito, que tem algo de errado comigo, eu já nem tenho vontade de procurar mais, não sinto ânimo e não tenho perspectiva, eu quero muito sentir aquilo, não nescessáriamente os sentimentos descritos antes mas sentir "aquilo" sabe?, o amor, meus sentimentos amorosos assim como meu ânimo e minha esperança para procurar e encontrar esse sentimento podem ser resumidos como 😑 isto é uma súplica e uma declaração.
Confusão, você não tem certeza do que está atrás da porta, por mais assustador que seja ela está aberta agora, pode continuar no escuro ou passar através da porta.
nos vemos en la violencia